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writes: I have fallen for my friend’s girlfriend. The trouble is that they have been together for 9 months and in that time I know he has cheated on her at least three or four times. He’s just one of those guys. We have been getting quite close over the past two months and I have fallen in love. I know I could give her and her son a better life than she has now. I know by the way she talks that she suspects he has cheated but because he is a great with her and her son almost perfect; when he is at home I don’t know whether she truly wants to know the truth.She has said on many occasions that if she were single she would be with me, but because she is in a relationship she has to try and make it work. Plus I feel she is worried that we might not work out if we got together. I get the feeling she would rather stay where she is suspecting he cheats than taking a risk in starting a new relationship with me.I also want her to love me for me, not because of what he has done. So I’m stuck whether to tell her or not. Reply to this Question
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reader, tequilarodeo +, writes (21 May 2006):
 It sucks when this kind of stuff happens, it sticks you between a rock and a hard place...
You know your friend has cheated on her and that is wrong, you know that, but would it not also be wrong for his girlfriend to cheat on him with you? And if you and her did get together, and your friend found out... would you be prepared to face him? Would you be prepared to loose a friend? This is an extremly hard question to answer, but in the end it's up to you and her and what you think is right... Good Luck! :)
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