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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Girlfriend lied about unprotected sex with other guys, now I'm worried I have an STD

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Heyy, im 16 nearly 17 (male). Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and we were sexually active. We had sex a few times without a condom because she told me she hadnt had sex with anyone else. While I was going out with her I caught thrush, a...

My abusive parents won't let me be with the one I love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about a year ago. At first, I didn't think it was anything. I had not really had a real boyfriend before that, and I wasn't expecting it to last very long. I'll call him mr. A Well, after two amazing dates, I was rea...

Any ideas of interesting topics?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am running out of conversation topics when ever I talk with the boy I like. It always ends up being silent and boring since neither of us can think of anything to talk about. Rarely, do we have a conversation where the talking lasts more than 10 ...

I'm 15, he is 26. Is this bad?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - right well im 15 .. and ive been going out with this lad who is 26 ... but ive been with him for nearly a year .. and where so happy .. he treats me like a princess and buys me what i want and loves me loads ... and evryone says im a very mature 15 ...

Should I risk confessing my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - For the past few months I have been very close friends with this boy. As you have probably guessed, I like him alot. The thing is, he is a real flirt and alot of girls also like him. We open up to eachother alot. He tells me that he flirts to give ...

Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :...

What to expect with a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm planning on a having a threesome with two men this weekend. I'm really nervous and I don't know what to expect. What should I expect when I have this kind of threesome?...

What does "exclusive" mean while dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy and it was funny when he said we were exclusively but now i feel dumb cuz i dont know what exclusively means. help me?...

Should I continue to pursue my major or give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - ok so i know this isnt a relationship question but i really need help. right now i am studying to get my BSW degree. but im conservative. i am constantly surrounded by liberals that attack me for my beliefs. all i want to do is get this degree and ...

How do I have sex if I'm not comfortable in my own skin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey guys. its a bit long, but heres the issue. its quite personal so please be serious and give some good advice. im 17, i have never had any sexual experience, mainly because iv never had a serious boyfriend. obviously iv kissed guys, but nothing ...

What are some ways to take a relationship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship. We have fun together. We are to the place were we want to take are relationship to the next level. What are some ways to do that? We are both curious about sex. We think we are ready for that as part...

Am I just a rebound for my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - .... About six months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me (which took a while to get over) to start going out with my ex best friend. But my ex and I still stayed close friends, and we sometimes refer to ourselves as 'brother and sister'. But today, ...

Pregnant at 15: how do I tell my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey there. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm preggers with my ex boyfriends baby who my parents forbayed me to see a long time ago. my ex boyfriend want anything to do with me or a baby. I've decided I'm going to ...

How can I get him to really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do I really like this guy...since last year but I do not know if he likes me? At my homecoming I was grinding on him and felt his boner and just about exploded down there. But that is not why I like him it is not at all just ...

Parents won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend. Is there a solution?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 weeks. Nothing has escalated from kissing yet let alone sex. None of us are in a rush but the problem i face is. My GF's mum is away for a week, obviously my GF wants me to sleep over. My mum and...

How do I save a relationship that's going downhill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey i need help with my relationship, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 month now. but i feel it is going down hill and i dont no what to do, when we first started going out it was good but he kept joking about this girl he ...

My family is convinced he just wants me for sex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Im im 15 years an a sophomore in high school. and i recently have been seeing this guy that is out of high school graduate. He is 18. He is really sweet an cares about me. But.. its my parents. Like they think all the guys want me for sex. But ...

Why is it so hard to let go of a person who's not treating you right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - im stuck in one of the worst situations ever. i think im in love with this man who doesnt care at all about me. all he wants is sex and because i care about him, i neva minded. but now im so hurt, to a point where i cant do anything but cry. i want ...

How do I move forward and meet someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, and I really want to be in a relationship right now. My only problem is that I sort of have anxiety issues when I'm forced to interact with other people in public situations, so I often find it hard to make friends and meet new ...

Follow up: am I wrong for loving the time I spend with my husband's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm sorry to post the same question again but i'm not listed as a follwup so no one saw what I wrote. But now I am logged in. I put the question I asked and the answers I got and my followups: My husband's brother is literally the nicest guy...

Is this how "Grown Up" relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi :) i'm Trixie and im 16 (17 in a few days!!) Basically I have started this "relationship" with a really great guy who is 20. The thing is we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend for about... 5 weeks now, although were not going out. No...

What can I do to stop getting worked up about stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - To cut a long story short I slept in the same bed as this guy one night. Nothing happened and I didn't intend on anything happening either. I didn't sleep that night anyway. I have a lovely boyfriend who Is a great friend as well. I told him what ...

How do I cope with our libido difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and we've never had a particularly rampant sex life. By all means, we both enjoy showing each other how much we love each other physically, but in the past few months it's been on the ...

My boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago and I've forgiven him. How do I move forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hi my boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago, a girl kissed him and he obviously let her, he did however push her away afterwards. either way it doesnt really matter what happened anymore the point is that im trying to move on, because ive ...

Is she just playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I need help and i have no idea what i am supposed to do. My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago because i believe we were spending way to much time together and small fights turned to big ones. We dated for 4 years and everything was great up until ...

Does he want to have sex with another woman because he doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Is it weird that my boyfriend told me that he was thinking about me having sex with another man and how hott it would be? He said that he doesn't think he would actually be able to ever do that unless we both knew that it wasn't emotional and just ...

Should I drop her, wait for her or be her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I met about about 6 weeks ago. We've dated for about 3 weeks and we really seemed to click. We have so much in common it's crazy. We liked the same things etc. Then things came up, we didnt spend much time together, she said ...

Is oral sex as bad as I imagine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - What does oral sex feel and taste like? Previously, I fingered a girl and smelt my finger after and it was horrible so I havnt even tried to use my mouth. Can anyone give me advice on what to do? thanks to everyone that hel...

Should I take a chance or ignore my instincts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hey there, ok so here's my problem. I have the strongest feelings ever for my best friend. (he's a guy). I know it's not love but it sure feels like it whenever i see him or talk to him. He just came out of a 1 year relationship so i know he's ...

How can I become more outgoing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I wanna be more outgoing but i don't know how. I'm really outgoing with some of my friends that I don't go to school with but the group I hang out with makes it feel impossible to be out there and when I try to be people don't seem to like me. What ...

Should I be worried he might be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - so here is my question... my boyfriend called me drunk one time.. and his nephew was on the phone because he had me on speaker)and he was talking about this girl named let's call her "b", my boyfriend was like hush boy your about to get me in ...

What makes someone a good kisser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hello. What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?...

Hard sores on the inside of my vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (?) - Hello,this will probably be the most embarassing question, or story, or what ever I will ever ask or tell about in my teanage life. So lately a year ago, I have been having hard sores in the inside of my left vagina lip(or however they say...

Any tips on female masterbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - OK, I'm not in a relationship right now, and I'm having a lot of trouble lately with, to put it bluntly, being very horny. I can't stop thinking about sex some days, it's rediculous. Some people have suggested that to help with this to try ...

Do you have to have sex in order to orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Do you have to have sex in order to have an orgasm? Why can't I remember dreams when I want to.......

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him constantly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend always thinks im after other guys and cheating on him constantly. Ive honestly never cheated on him i love him so much. I go to school and i got a little close with one guy, we would hug longer than other people would or talk just to ...