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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Sex hurt me way too much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - hello(: I'm 15 years old and have been talking to a guy for over a year. He made it "official" a week ago. We tried having sex but it hurt way too much i could not handle the pain. I felt really bad because i told him i was ready. But i just wann...

How do I reconnect with my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of almost a year. We are irrevocably in love and everything is great. But it seems like I have no friends anymore. I don't go out like I used to, I lost contact with one of my best friends that I ...

I feel like dumping her as she finds him attractive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - i recently asked my girlfreind if She would ever have sex with this guy, i know she thinks is good looking, although she told me she is not intrested in anybody but me. She told me she doesnt just sleep with anyone, the fact she has only spoken t...

What would girls recommend that a guy with a small penis do in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - What kind of things could a guy with a small penis do to give a girl a good time in bed? Mine only measures about 3 and 1/2 inches when erect, 4 inches if I push the fat in a little (I'm a bit on the heavy side), but clearly I'm not going to be ...

My teacher is on my mind literally 24/7. Help me get over this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Ok, this is going to be kind of long but I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! Hear it goes... I am 15 years old I am totally in love with my business studies teacher since year 8 and I think I’m getting to the point of obsession. I know a lot about him and...

How can you tell if a boy likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - How can you tell a boy you like like's you ? As he is in my class and I do not know how to re-act around him , any advice ?...

Is my friend correct about my hymen not being intact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I can fit my middle finger inside my vagina without any discomfort my friend said that this probably means that my hymen isn't intact, even though I've never had sex is this true?...

Is it okay to have sex on prom night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - sex after prom night been a sort of "tradition" the question is whether or not to have sex with my gf after the prom. I think it depends on both people involved. If you are in a serious relationship, . I think it is ok to have sex that night. If...

In love with two boys....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I'm in love with two boys. One boy, ('Cody') I dated for about 9 months. We had the most wonderful relationship, and I cannot remember a time when we fought about anything besides who loved who more. Towards the end of our relationship I started ...

Even though is sounds sad, I'm still jealous of my pretty friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - heyy i just want to know this may sound stupid but i dont like goin out with my mates to like clubs becoz they get loads of male attention and i dont am not sayin i want the attention but it would b good to b atleast noticed . i think my friends are ...

Does no one want me because of my reputation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - im 16 and have never had a boyfriend but ive slept with 3 boys which mean nothing to me and i really wish i hadnt, but i really want a boyfriend but no one seems to want me coz they think im just goin to sleep about which im not i really do want a ...

Why is my ex not adding me back on MSN?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - why is my ex not adding me back on msn because about a week ago we kind of had an argument but then she deletes me from msn. then about 4 days later i asked her why she deleted me and she says that i was getting on her nerves. but i apologised and ...

I can't stop thinking about my mom sexually

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - My parents got divorced 13 years ago, and so i was forced to live at my mums during the week and my dads at the weekends. About 8 years ago, i needed to get a glass from the cupboard, but my mum was standing on the worktop in the way cleaning the ...

Should I propose to her or tell her how I feel first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hi! I want to ask that i love a girl from a year but i haven't told it to her. I think she also loves me so should i propose her? Plz help me Thanks!!...

Are my parents doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hello. My mum and dad are currently breaking up, although I have the feeling that they shouldn't be. Basically, my dad gave up smoking a year and a half back, but his job has gotten really stressfull. My mum had this happen two times before and...

We are best mates so how do I not ruin things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I went out with someone 5 months ago. He was my first real love, i'd never loved anyone like i loved him! We was only together a month, we hardly ever seen each other, he got excluded for a week, and i went on holiday for 2 weeks. So we had only ...

She wants to leave him. Is there a chance for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Ok recently, she messaged me around 3am, sayin I have put some magic spell on her and made her attracted to me haha. But she wants to keep a distance and she's worried what if we never get together because she's still with her bf but he just wont ...

I really want a relationship, but I'm so insecure about my looks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I have never been in a relationship before. I've liked several guys before (not at the same time of course) and about 2 of the crushes were HUGE, they really impacted me and it lingered on my mind for a year or so. But I ...

Out of control pubic hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone i'm 18 yrs old boy.well i have a problem actually i have lots of pubic hairs although i know its normal to have hairs in genital area but i too have hairs around anal area and its enough,i have lots of hairs on my legs but one thing is ...

Can my male cousin buy me a pearl and what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i know this is not a relationship question but i need to know can my boy cousin buy me a pearl and what does it mean...

Should I say goodbye or leave him to forget me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - im gonna cut off contact with my ex who is my best friend as well its killing me to do this, but i dont know what else to do to get over him. I haven't spoken to him for 2 days which is a big improvement because we talk everyday since we met. Should ...

I just want ONE night with him, I think that's all it would take to bring us closer then it could be the start of something new!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - There's a guy i've known for quite some time now and when we're alone i feel this 'connection' between us. We both become quite shy and although the eye contact is only brief, it is filled with such tension. Most of the time i avoid looking at him ...

I have really fallen for him but I'm scared it might be too late!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...

How do I tell my parents and my friends that I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - im 13 im gay. i love men. how do i tell my parents. and my friends it all started 2 weeks ago when i was straight, i had never kissed a girl though. i went into the bathroom and only my friend, who i knew to be gay, was there. i did my business ...

Should I tell him how I feel? I don't know whether it is possible to have a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - okay so i'm like freaking out. i think this sort of started maybe 3 years ago when i started talking to my friend from germany. at first, it was just normal things and we chatted like everyday, and then he gradually started flirting and stuff bu...

How do I let her down without hurting her too much? I don't want to start a relationship when I am moving away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - okay, well i'l just get straight into it. i'm a 17 year old guy and she is a 15 year old girl. we both go to the same college, she is 2 years below me in school and has a brother in my year. i honestly don't remember how we met but i have been ...

How can I let him know I am over him and just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok i posted a lot of things on here actually.. im having trouble getting over what happened i explained it in detail in one of my other writings.. long story short i got left for some ghetto girl on homecoming nite for a guy i committed to and...

Why did my girlfriend break up with me out of the blue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of four months decided yesterday she wasn't happy, and wanted to leave me. The day before was our 4 month anniversary, and things were great, or so i thought. she says i did nothing wrong she just wasn't happy anymore. Can any one help ...

She loves someone else...should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - here's the story, Kim loves me (not real names), i love amy, amy loves katie (yes shes bi), and katie well she loves everyone (shes sorta a sl*t.) so main point i love amy who says she loves me but also loves katie....i have waited for months for ...

I still love my ex but we have different backgrounds. Can it work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Well it's simple, I'm still in love with my ex and she says she still has feelings for me. I'm just not sure if I should take her back. When I was with her I tried to be the best boyfriend I could. I always did what she wanted me to, I bought her ...

Do you think he'll write me sometime?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - well i barly graduted from high school. i still have a crush on the football player. but we go to two diffrent colleges, i dont get to see him anymore. an our highschool theirs football games, the last game is novemeber 5. which i hope to see ...

How do I improve my biceps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 m and I'm really weak..I'd be useless if it came to defending myself..am I the only 16 year old guy with practically no biceps?...

How do I get through to him that it's not funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

26 October 2009 (?) - soo me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 5 months now. we're jus coming back from a huge fight and break up and arent exactly together, jus working on things. so this weekend has been very good and we're happy, but today, i was at my ...

Ladies: do you think guys that are virgins are cute?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Do ladies around my age (17-23 I guess) think it's cute for a guy that's 19 to be a virgin? I know a few girls, one is 18 now, and she said she wants a guy with experience. But on the other end, one day when I was in class these "experienced" (lol) ...

Should I forgive her and trust again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, please any advice at all would be much appriciated!!, sorry this might be abit drawn out but I need serious help with my love life. I met a girl when I was 12, it was love a first sight for both of us and immediatley we hit it off, for...

Why won't he respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - my first question is so me and this guy have been talking for awhile on facebook and texting and at school he always sayings hi to me and he smiles but when i asked him to hang out he stops talking but when i said happy birthday he replied but h...

My cheating boyfriend aggravates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend cheated on me like 3 mnths ago and i took him back he said that she got pregnant by his bestfriend and then yesterday we were talking and i told him how sick i was cuz i got the flu and he was like O ARE YOU PREGNANT and DONT ...