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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...

Will a DWI prevent me from having a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I've got a bit of a problem. Over the weekend I was arrested for a DWI and had my car impounded, and I probably won't be driving for about a year. I am single and really worried that this is going to prevent me from finding a girlfriend. There are a ...

Hmmm...is he interested or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - i have known this one guy for about two months. he and i go to the same college. I took the iniative and have been texxting him for a while now. Two days ago, he decided to stop texting and called me directly instead. I like him from the start and ...

I miss who "we" were. Is there any way to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - My friend and I used to always joke around that we were soul mates. And for a while, I believed it. But as time progressed, she started to get really into partying and drinking, and I cannot tolerate it at all. I feel like we're becoming two diff...

Is a relaxed state of mind optimum for having a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I've been told that having a relaxed state of mind is optimum for having a vaginal orgasm however i struggle to focus on anything other than cumming and how long its taking me, if he's enjoying it, if he's getting bored... Does anyone have any tips...

Do you think its important to know about your partner's past sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Im 18 years old. I have been sleeping with my bf for almost a year now. The first time We did it (which was dumb on MY behalf), and everytime after that, we did it unprotected. He's a lot older then me..31. And has a 4 year old daughter. We ...

I've liked him for several years! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for along time. We are both really shy. He may or may not like me. My preachers daughter works with him and she asked him if he knew who I was he said yes with a smile. His mom and uncle know my mom. His uncle always talks to me ...

She deleted me off her contact list. What's wrong with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - well when my ex found out i had a girlfriend she was suprised and started asking me when i went out with her and that she wanted a picture of her then she kept calling and texting me all the time and most of the time i didnt answer her back and she ...

I was about to tell him I love him but now I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have finally come to realise that I don't just fancy him anymore. This weekend i thought about him so much and i think he is the first ever boy i have truly loved and cared about. The problem is.. he just doesn't know. It started out last year.. ...

How can I please him and make it look like I know what I'm doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - its been a year since i last had sex , and i think ive found the one now , the thing is im a bit nervous, with my ex who i lost my virgnity to we only ever did the missionary position , he wasnt very passionate and we only had sex a few times, i...

Did he lose interest after our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - We had our first date..now what? It went well (from my standpoint) and I enjoyed it! We had talked a lot before the date and both expressed a big interest in each other before the date. We both said that after the date we would discuss where we...

I can't stop thinking about her, but I can't have her. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - i am in my senior year in school. i have my final examination in a few months time-the results of which will exclusively determine which college I get into, my career and my life. hence, it is needless to say i have to really focus on my studies. ...

I feel as though I've lost my morals...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I hate who i am becoming and i can't stop myself. I used to be the classy girl with a lot of respect for herself, but in a month and a little it has changed. I lost my virginity three years ago now and in the space of three years i had only slept wi...

How do I 'move in for the kiss'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - This may sound stupid, or a waste of time but, ive been going out with a girl for almost 2 months now, im really into her, the thing is im not sure how to move forward because we have only really just been taking it easy, hugs, pecks all that stuff, ...

Shall I stick around and hope he fancies me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know ...

What do teenage girls whisper with each other about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Hi, can only teenage girls answer this please. I'm just wondering what you talk about when your go into circles and whisper.... It intemidates my friends and I lol so just wondering. ...

I want to have longer conversations with him. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really like this boy in one of my classes. (I'm a junior in high school.) He is very funny, very very attractive, and not to mention - NICE! He's got it all. We ever share a few common interests. We've had casual conversations before, never ...

Is it possible to fall back in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall back in love again, when fallen out of love whatever the circumstances? is there any hope at all? i would really appreciate the advice, or and comments, thanks....

I like him but I am not physically attracted to him. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - So i really like my best friend he's a guy lol and the only problem is that there is almost no physical attraction. i mean i love himm and his ways but there's not physical attraction and idk what to do??...

My bestfriend or my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - This guy that I've liked for a while finally asked me out. The only two problems are that my bestfriend likes him too, and even went out with him but she broke up with him a few months ago and has been seeing other people. Also, he's my first ...

I think I need some reassurance here or just anyones idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 18 years old Throughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on me I have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone ...

Possible hooker interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I recently was using the internet on my boyfriends phone and saw history of looking up local prostitutes and hookers. it caused a huge fight between us since he swore and will deny forever the fact that it wasn't him but i still don't beleive him. ...

I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I love him with all my heart but in every case whether it be fights or what he wants, I have given in to him. I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him ...

Me and my ex just got back together and I don't think she wants to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex just got back together and i dont know what it is but i dont think she wants to be with me. Two times when i ask her for us to go out she tells me lets just be friends. I ask her y and she says cause she dont like going out she would ...

I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now I like his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now i like his best friend. I want to ask him to our halloween dance but i dont know how. can anyone help....

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was ...