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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

So much drama with this girl...is it worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I know this looks long but the question is short. 2/3 of it is just part of the argument we had that id like you guys to weigh in on. This is kinda a follow-up to my earlier question: http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...

What's the best way to reaffirm "we're just friends"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys (aunts!), A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend, and then a few months after that a guy who I got to uni with broke up with his girlfriend too (except his break up was really complicated etc.) Anyway, basically we weren't really g...

I want to be more than friends. How do I bridge that gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for almost a year. We use to hang out all the time and she had a boyfriend.There would be signs that she liked me. Like one time I was going away for a week and she hugged me goodbye, and I said I'll call you when I get back, ...

How do I convince my mam to let me date him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My ex,, i still like him loads,, but it was a complicated relationship before all because of the lies my uncle was telling my mam when he didnt even know the boy i was going with,, he never knew his name or out but my uncle was telling my mam that ...

I've always just 'felt' like she's gay despite her claiming she's straight

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I guess I'm just wanting advice on whether this girl i'm mad about is gay. I fell in love with her over a year ago and it was the first time i've ever liked a girl so its taken me a pretty long time to accept it. But now i'm confident with the fact ...

Should I carry on trying to take things further?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - hi. I know this might sound a bit stupid but i am totally unbearablely obsessed with this guy. We don't know each other very well but we have been going to the same hockey club for 1 or 2 years and he's recently started at the same school as me. ...

My boyfriends dad found my alcohol, how do I regain his trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - the other night i slept around my boyfriends house and brought a bottle of vodka with me the next day i forgot to take it home and my boyfriends dad found it and now hates me how can i regain his trust i know it was my fault but i dont know what to ...

He always needs sex but I need help with our son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - im 19 years old...i got married when i was 17.My husband is 26 years old, we have our first son together he is 6 months old.We been having problems for about 3 months i dont know if its my fault because we argue but i have to keep telling him to ...

Lies caused my mum to dissaprove, I want my ex back how do I approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Iv been with a boy before and hes 16 years old, but my uncle says to my mam he was 18 when he wasnt but my uncle has never bothered with me ever in my life until now, but why now? the boy i was with was the best boy i ever dreamed of but i broke up ...

Should I go out with a boy who is my "soul mate"? Everyone thinks we need to!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - we were out for the day me an my mates and we ran into this boy who is my soul mate hes exactly like me we have the same personalty and everyone says we need to go out and he really likes me but im really not attracted to him but sometimes i think i ...

My mum doesn't like my boyfriend, how can I explain it to her so she will let me get back with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Well, I Was with this boy before but my uncle went and told lies about him to my mam so my mam started not to like him, when i broke up with him i cant stop thinking of him i really want him back but i just dont know how to explain it to my mam so ...

I feel so scared and alone, the one good thing in my life has gone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I think this has been long overdue and I'm not even sure I know how to express exactly how i'm feeling in one question, but I have to try. I'm almost eighteen now and I really feel like i've hit an all time low, rock bottom you might say. I kn...

My friend cant decide which ex to go out with again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, my friend has 5 old boyfriends she likes one of them alot but he's ignoring her. Another one who used to love her alot but trying to make her jealous to get her back and the last who's really cute and likes her, but there's this new guy ...

I have a crush on him but I think he is still in love with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i have a crush on this guy and have been crushing on him since last year.. but i think he's still in love with his ex-girlfriend.. but he's always laughing with me and winking at me should i go for it? what should i do?...

Is it possible that I am 14 weeks pregnant? I'm only 15!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hi,its been 4 months since my last period which is 1 month longer than normal. I can't wait for a missed period because of the months between them,so I don't have an exact date to work with. If I was pregnant I would be 14 weeks and 2 days preg...

How do I tell him that I don't want to wait years to have a baby without it ruining our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - hi, it's me again lol this time i'm going through a little more than usual. like i said in a previous blog/article i had two miscarriages about a year ago, neither of them were planned pregnancies and they both really tore me up inside. i've tried ...

There are too many obstacles in the way of being together, but do you think he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Well I met this guy through one of my friends in London, it was her cousin. when I was about 16. He was sooo cute looking ... I just knew he was the one. We were both very shy so we didn't verbally talk to each other as in face to face or phone we ...

My pregnancy has taken me totally by surprise. What do I do and where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I just found out that I am 34 weeks pregnant. I never knew until I took a test because I was having problems with what I thought was gas and constipation and the pain was really bad so I went to a doctor at a walk in clinic and he said to do a test ...

I'm starting to think of him a lot - where do I go from here?

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5 October 2009 (F) - hi, two years ago i dated this guy that i deeply fell in love with. we dated for two weeks then broke up. nine months later, we dated again for four months and it didnt work out again. we were just high school kids, so we made a lot of mistakes, we ...

I need words of wisdom. I'm a girl in a dark place...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I think all my problems start with the vivid memories of my childhood. I remember I must of been only four, I was pounding on the door, screaming for my mother and when the door opened, another woman was standing there - naked. It must of took us ...

I don't know what to do with this fine, Mexican boy!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (?) - im still trying to get a boyfriend without being so desperate. im mean ive been asked out a few times, but not by the right guys. Here's a follow up. Ok, last year ive been looking up ways to suduce, flirt, all kinds of stuff with this one boy. It...

My boyfriend is pressuring me to go farther than I want

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants more then just kissing..he gave me a hickey i didnt want it.... he is making me feel uncomfortable by touching me!!! and i told him to stop and he yells and says its like we are just friends nothing more... and he has slaped me ...

I need to get a partner and gain sexual experience! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I'm a nineteen-year-old male college student who has never kissed a girl. I don't lack the tools necessary: I'm physically attractive, funny, and a hecka bomb musician. My problem is that I am afraid to make a mistake. I didn't even kiss the fi...

He says a "break" will make us stronger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years. He says he wants a "break" because I doesn't feel he deserves me right now and feels he needs to mature before he can have me. He said he can't go on hurting me anymore by stupid things he does ...

How do I bring up the subject without pressuring her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Hey fellow agony aunts! I'm in quite a dilema. Im 14 soon to be 15. My girl friend is 15 and we both have been together for a while. Like 8 months. We've done nothing sexual just innocent kisses and making out. But for a long time now i've been ...

Why is he suddenly acting so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

5 October 2009 (?) - Just want to know why guys do this!! After a long term relationship in which we were completely in love and going to get married, he calls off the relationship out of the blue. Cheating and abuse of any kind were not involved. He cries and su...

If I had came inside her is there a high risk of her getting pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has just gotten off her period 6 days ago, and has been on birth control for 5 days. (5 pills taken) We had unprotected sex but I pulled out. I am not 100% sure I pulled out in time though. If i had came inside her is there a high risk ...

Could I be missing a hormone or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this is my first time doing this so bare with me...im 19 yrs old and i am a newlywed...it will be a year in December. I love my husband to death but i can count on one hand how many times we have had sex. not because of him but because of ...