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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm stuck, my boyfriends birthday is soon and I don't know what to get.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys, Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for two months now, and his 15th birthday is in November. I havent really asked him what he wants for his birthday because I want to suprise him. So my question is, what should I get him...

I'm unable to get over the thought that he doesn't like me too, please help.

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hey. This isn't exactly a relationship problem. But it's still linked. Recently, I've had to come to accept that the feelings I had for a guy weren't mutual. I had sort of convinced myself that he fancied me. I'm still in denial and hoping that he ...

We admitted we liked each other, but she acts like she hates me!

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22 October 2009 (M) - Basically me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor talked about it. Now things have gone back to normal except now she keeps hitting me whenever I say something stupid and calls me...

I'm confused and scared what should I do?

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22 October 2009 (F) - I'm 18 in college and I maybe pregnant and if my college finds out I can be kicked out and if my mom and family find out I might not have anywhere to live and I'm so scared because part of me wants to keep it and the other part says no. I'm confused ...

I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!

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22 October 2009 (M) - Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by ...

I had an erotic dream about my teacher!

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22 October 2009 (F) - I had a dream last night.. and I was having sex with my teacher!! It was my 9th grade ELA teacher, we are very good friends and we perform at musical events often. But the strange thing is I could feel what was happening, like I could feel what he ...

My father acts like I don't exist, how do I get him accept me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - I feel like I don't have a father figure in my life as my dad ignores me, and doesn't want to spend time with me. He is my biological dad by the way, I don't have a stepdad. He's more interested in pursuing a feud with someone else than spendi...

How to get my boyfriend to be less distant?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend alex for a long time now but for the last month or so hes been very distant. He wont answer my calls or texts but when i see him its amazing!! he takes me on road trips and long walks which i love but recently he wont...

My friends think I'm a lesbian!

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22 October 2009 (F) - okay. im 14. and my friends always say im a lezo. like, i like guys. well, i always used to, and like, this is the time when people normally start liking. and, well, i think girls are pretty, but i also appreciate guys. and there making me doubt ...

Body Acne Problems

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22 October 2009 (F) - [WARNING GROSS STORY. SORRY!] This is So embarrassing. So, I REALLY like this boy. and we are currently dating. He tells me I'm pretty but I feel like I'm the ugliest girl in the world. This is because I have horrible skin. I have acne and stuff, ...

How do I deal with the trauma of having an abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - On August 26th I had an Abortion. I am only fifteen years old, and the guy I was with, is only sixteen. We are broken up now. I had an Abortion for numerous reasons. The fact that I could never be able to support it fiancially, and my ex boyfri...

I wanna lose weight... fast.

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22 October 2009 (F) - I wanna lose weight... fast. What is a way I can lose a lot of body fat and tone my body up fast?...

Nothing I do is good enough!

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22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...

Do you think I made the wrong decision?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so, I've been seeing this guy for about a year now and my bestfriend doesn't like him. At all! He didn't really do anything to her all he did was agreed that she was a slut but the boy who actually called her a slut she still likes? I really like ...

My best friend has a history of cheating and is now attracted to me!

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22 October 2009 (F) - One of my best male friends is currently in a long-distance relationship, and has been for about two months now. He has a history of infidelity but he insists that this time around, he has changed for good and will remain faithful. I tend to ...

What should I do with my ex?

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22 October 2009 (M) - I found out the other day that my ex still has feeling for me. She broke up with me a a little over a month ago and I just recently found out she has feeling for me. I have feelings for her too, I mean I still love her and care about her very much ...

Need birth control and have no way to get it..HELP!

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22 October 2009 (F) - I need help! I know I said im 18 but im realy 16 but I need help. I need birth control and I cant ask my mom or anyone for them?? I need advice! please help someway. My mom's outa the question ...

I feel responsible for my cousin becoming a whore!

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22 October 2009 (M) - Ok when I was 9 years old I had sex with my cousin... twice. It was her idea to do it but I was curious so of course I didn't say no. I think she was 8 at the time. Of course being 9 It's not like it made me feel good or anything, I didn't get a ...

He knows I like him so why is he behaving like this?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hi just wondered if you could make any sense of this as im slightly confused. A friend of mine(a guy) is a very nice guy in general. I wouldnt call him shy but hes abit quiet at times. We've had afew ups and downs in the past, lifes been made ...

Why does he treat me differently?

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22 October 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok here's my problem, i like this guy for over a year now. he's just so cool and i really like him, but he only likes me as a friend and he still likes his ex-girlfriend. i tryed getting over him and i can't. plus he knows i like him. ok so ...

First time sex...It felt good but not great. I'm wondering if this is normal.

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22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so I lost my virginity lastnight.. And it wasn't exactly what I had expected. Like, it felt good, but not GREAT. Is that normal for the first time? And also, there was this pain, well I cant say it was really a pain, more of like a weird ...

He told my friends he was going to kiss me. He keeps making up stupid excuses why he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - My boyfriend is REALLY shy. We've been going out for over two weeks and we still haven't kissed yet. When I text him, we can hold a conversation for hours, but when we are in person he gets quiet and barely talks. He is a year younger than me, and I ...