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Archived questions from: 10 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Has a friend messed it up for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I'm so confused! I told a boy in year 9 (Im in year 8) that I had a crush on him and he replied back as 'I fancy you a bit too' We were talking and he seemed really sweet, so I put him as a shoutout on my MSN name with a love heart, messages ...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - ok i had sex with my boyfriend and he didnt break my hymen but i did bleed after but i dont know if i am still a virgin. so am i a virgin??...

I was gutted when my friend asked him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Here's my problem: I really clicked with this guy who goes to my college, quicker than any friend I have ever made. He's really physical and touches me a lot. He likes carrying me around, sitting next to me - when our knees touch under the table ...

Is my lack of reaching out proof that I didn't like or care about him as much as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for a little less than a year. We don't attend the same school so it's mostly through the phone and text messages. However, I do visit as often as I can. Now I have grown to like and care for him greatly and ...

I have a real problem with sweat! What can I do to control it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - i know this doesnt have much to do with relationships but it really bothers me and i need help. i finally got drysol and it worked marvelously on my underarms but doesnt work at ALL on my hands. i dont know what to do, i was so excited to finally ...

I'm 17, still a virgin and I really don't want to be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Heya, I'm 17, still a virgin and .. I really don't want to be! All my friends are in relationships and having lots of sex or just having sex anyway. I have quite a lot of male friends that I am close friends with and feel confident around but I seem ...

I'm not in a relationship but I feel like I need to call it off with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I had a little too much to drink at a party one night and ended up in one of the boys who lived there's bed. he moved away from home so left his girlfriend. we just kissed and i wouldnt go any further. he asked me if i wanted to see him again and ...

We confessed we liked each other over a month ago. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - me and her used to be friends but then we confessed we liked each other, that was over a month ago and now things have pretty much gone back to how they were before, we haven't talked about our feelings since. I know she trusts me enough to tell me ...

I don't want to waste time if he doesn't like me. Is there hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Welllll! Okay, so I kind of like this boy in my biology classs. He sits infront of me. And he kind of flirts with me but I can't tell if he's a flirt and just a waste of my time or maybe, possibly likes me. The girl next to me told me the other ...

If he really wanted me...why would he push me away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - i need some advice about what to do..i'm really hurt...every time i think of him i get this weird feeling in my stomache..and i feel like crying..like idk why i even care but i do..i was really into this guy:( I met this guy last year during the...

Why do I hate him when he's done nothing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - hiya well ive been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now and we have a 7 month old daughter the thing is i feel like im beginning to hate him he hasnt done anything wrong but i just dont like him and its making me stressed out just looking at him ...

What is the significance of a forehead kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So i was @ my Ex girlfreinds, well Girlfreinds, she asked me to give it another go with her last nite, so i went to her house and we was Holding each other, and she asked me to kiss her on the FOREHEAD, What is the significance of a Forehead kiss? t...

Does he want to have a child with me now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (?) - im 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 4 months, but we have known eachother for almost a year. when school ends in june, he will be leaving for college and enlisting in the navy. yet, we want to keep our relationship together. he says ...

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I didn't release sperm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Can my girlfriend be pregnant if i didnt release sperm during sex, and can i tell if she is if it happen in june. ...

Is she toying with me for her amusement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - help im really confused! This girl at my high school keeps writing me notes about how she is a virgin. this started happening about three weeks ago and its starting to get worse. Then in the halls i ran into her and she was like what the hell are ...

Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not?? ...

The boy I like told everyone at school I was a frigid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Well, I've loved this boy since year 6. ( I'm now in year 10.) And I've been out with him nearly 10 different times but it doesn't last long because I refuse to kiss him. It not my fault though because I was raped when I was younger. He doesn't seem ...

I guy I like kissed another girl! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - basically this guy i like liked me a couple of weeks ago round about august time, my best friend knew i liked him and she knew he liked me back, i only found this out after he went to a party and kissed another girl. i am really upset, i don't know ...

Did I misread her signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Well where to begin.I am 19 i will be 20 shortly and ic never had a gf..nor have i ever been on a date or even had my first kiss yet.i dont know if im what you would call picky but it's just when i feel a connection with someone is when i like them ...

Do I have the right to tell him off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - im in a ldr. i came down to see him this weekend. on my way here, driving, he asked if i was going to come see him. his mother said no because itll be 11 pm by the time i got to miami. however, he and his brother are allowed to go to their friends ...

What are the chances she is pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Alright, so my girlfriend and I last had sex 6 days ago.(We're both 14, by the way, but please don't answer my question like you're talking to a little kid who has to be told about abstinence)After I ejaculated into my condom, I took off the condom ...

How do I make him notice me and love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have fallen in love with a boy in my class but he loves my best friend and i am getting jealous she is very sexy and i am ok but how can i make him notice me, talk to me, and love me. please help me out or else i ...

What's the point of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - i need to know whats the point of a relationship? after being dumped, cheated on, hurting others, and my obsession with romance. ive lost my way and reasons why a relationship is so important...

I'm getting bored with my girlfriend. Does anyone understand what I'm going through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I am in a 3yr relationship with my girlfriend and we both love each other an everything but recently ive been feeling kinda bored with her. I mean b4 i wanted to be with her and talk to her 24/7 an now its just i want to leave early an talk less . ...

She needs time but I'm home suffering in agony over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - okay, well basically i'm lost. My girlfriend and i broke up yesterday because i snapped and found a call from another guy on her phone and text him cussing him out for calling her. this guy has defended her in school and apparently he knew about ...

Is there something wrong with me if I don't enjoy oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So I have a boyfriend and we've been with each other for just over 7 months now. We've been having oral sex for a little while now as I'm not really ready for sex yet and he's fine with that. But, the problem is when he gives me oral sex I don't ...

Has anyone else had a similar experience....letting a guy kiss you in a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Basically we were all out and bit tipsy. Some guy said "let me kiss you on the check and these girls will make out", naturally I said yes because the girls were nice looking and it's only my cheek. Then he said if he kisses my lips then I can have ...

He suddenly started ignoring me and messing my head up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Hi, im hoping you could help me out here. Let me begin by giving you a little background info...but before i do theres something you must know. The guy im talking about is in NO WAY a player or anything, be is one of the nicest guys you'll ever ...

What can I do about my girlfriend ignoring me when we hang out with friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I REALLY need your help on this. Ok so the thing is that whenever my GF and some of our friends hang out i feel totally ignored by her. It's happened a couple of times already. So we're just hanging out and then I'm just sitting alone or something ...

Why does this girl run so hot and cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl brittany in two of my classes , shes 15 and very cute and i know point blank that she likes me, but recently shes been getting pretty strange. For one, she gave me her number but then didnt get back to my text. When i asked her ...

I like two girls but who should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - So I've known two girls for the last two years: let's call them Sophie and Katy. I've probably talked to Sophie more and we get along really well (same type of humor and things like that), but she's really shy and kind of a loner. So, she doesn't ...

Does it seem like he still likes me or has he moved on to that other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So this boy liked me but I'm not sure anymore I liked him back and I still like him he's always hanging around with this other girl that he liked before me they hug each other all the time and talk privately to each other I'm starting to g...

Is it common to feel guilt after masterbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have been masterbating for a very long time, i do it evry other day. I was getting really worried because I thought I was the only one in the world who did it. After i do it i get a huge feeling of guilt and shame but it dosn't stop me doing it ...