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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Midnight horrors and deep thinking takes me away to another place! Am I sane or insane is the question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I get strange dreams every night. Always about the super natural. Most of the time very disturbing thing such as mini heads, impaled bodys, flickering lights, dark figures and canniablism. Somtimes it even gets to the pint where there are three ...

Why doesn't my long distance boyfriend want to make me his world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We met on myspace and he lives in Oregon. I live in California. We are 16 years old and almost 17. We met over summer and really connected the days he was here. Before meeting each other we ...

Had unprotected sex and facing single motherhood at 15. Do you think he'll stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - okay. well me and this quy have been a on nd off relationship for a year and almost 2 months. we've been through hell and back.. we havent been together for a while..we juss started having sex like in september. well im only 15 and he's 18. we have ...

In a student/teacher fantasy, what role does the man prefer to play?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - this is going to seem really random, but i need to ask: in student/ teacher fantasies, do most men prefer being the student or the teacher? i ask this because it seems to me that most women i come across prefer to be the student, so i assumed that ...

He's been cheated on 7 times and doesn't date. Is there hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - im desperate for some answers so please help. basically my problem is one that we've all heard before, the 2 guys one girl thing. basically i met this guy at a party around sep. we've been texting some,kissed once, and i have plans to go out ...

I really want to be with him so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Okay, hi. Me and a particular boy are getting on very well-he's sixteen and I'm fifteen. Last week he invited me around to his house, and I went on Saturday-it was just me but I'll tell you now, he did not force me into bed with him. On the con...

How to win his heart when he keeps turning me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - how to win a man's heart? I really like him. Sometimes I ask him out, but most of the times he turned me down. He cares for me like his sister, but not a love relationship. I want him to love me too. How can I do that?...

Does anyone have tips on how to boost my confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Helloo there. I have a really big problem well..i think it is anyway.. I have 2 problems that are abit annoying me atm.. okay so the first one is..I CANT stop going red..its so annoying..its like some1 has slapped my face like a 100 times..i go r...

Why is my ex acting so weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we talk very little. When we do talk she doesn't have much to say or she seems a little annoyed. When she saw me at a football game last week she ran up to me hugged me and told me she missed me. She hugged me ...

Urgent Help- sexually confused 18yr old male!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I was going through a stage of wanking over gay porn for a while then as soon as cumming I imagine a girl or tits etc(I stopped a few days ago), and it is really confusing me because I find girls attractive and have only ever fancied girls but ...

What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Just a quick question: What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you? What is actually going through their minds? A guy i've known for a year is like this... when i speak he puts his head down and seems to listen intensively to what i'm saying ...

He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...

Girls Only: Advice on taking birth control!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - (GIRLS ONLY) I just started that process where you take birth control pills so that you only have your period 4 times a year. I was wondering if anybody else has or is doing that, because I wanted to know if then when you DO get your period if i...

Should I tell the her that I have a crush on her best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - hello there there is a girl that i like she used to date my best friend at school but me and him haven't spoken for a while because we chose different career choices. she is a year younger than me and we keep in touch over facebook and msn. ...

Am I pregnant? What will my mom think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - okay i am 14, my mam knows i might be pregnant i told her this morning now she has gone to work so i am very scared for when she comes home okay i came on my period last month a week after i had sex and now i am 19 days late on this months period i...

Does my step-brother like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - My stepbrother is always touching my butt and asking me for sexual favors does he like mi?And i think he is sending mi mixed messages and its creeping mi out!!!! I need answers....

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...

Can I get pregnant from sex during my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I had my period on the 3rd of october, and it might sound weird to others but we had sex that day and he came in me, same with the day after and the day after that. my period last bout 7 days. and i was wondering if that could get me pregnant? its ...

Should I have sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin and my ex-girlfriend who is 15 had sex already ! I'm very jealous of her even though she told me that I should wait. She didn't so why would I do so? [Edited by moderator to improve readability]...

We have a perfect relationship except he shakes me and pulls my hair...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together 5 months now but have known eachother for over a year. we have a perfect relationship. sometimes. when we are not fighting and screaming and wanting to strangle eachother. we fight over ...

Should I tell my best friend my secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I need help. I am a confused girl who had strange feelings. I feel like I have more than just a friendship with my female best friend... I am also a female and I really who die for her. She told me that if she broke up with sombody she would not ...

Why do I keep attracting nerds?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. W...

Is he making this church girl up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - theres this guy and he is in one of my classes so i see him everyday! all my friends and anyone who sees me with him thinks we are together, even though were not. me and him are such bad flirts with eachother. the thing is he leads me on big time, ...

Will he become disinterested because I'm too interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I have a roommate and recently she and her brother planned a trip for some friends. I was invited. On the trip her brother and i went for a hike and talked. We connected on every level. We shared the same views, opinions, and experiences. The ...

What do my horrible, recurring nightmares mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - i keep having reoccuring horrific nitemares. it`s so realstic. i prepare for bed and once i fall asleep in my dream a figure enters my room in the dark pins me down then rapes me. i scream and it feels so real. when i wake up it`s in fright. what ...

My boyfriend won't take me to homecoming and will break up with me if I go. Is he bluffing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) - my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophomore, hes 18 im 16. homecoming is on friday and he wont take me. he says he doesnt wana go so i said i was jus gona go and he said we will break up if i go without him.. i asked why and he said "because its a ...

Guys: Is this a sign he's going to break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Okay so I really need a guys advice, I have been with the same guy for about 4 months! I seriously love him so much! We have had a pretty good relationship so far, not many fights, we did have one break up but got back together cause we were crazy ...

How do I get my boyfriend to change his thought that I'm controlling him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I found out from a friend my boyfriend created a facebook today. I dislike social networkings like that because myspace caused so many problems between us before. I stopped going on it but I let him continue to go on it. One day, during summer, we ...