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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I stop myself being so nervous about everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and i get so nervous about everything. When im at school i get so nervous that somebody will talk about me or hit me or just plan mess with me. See im a quiet person who doesn't say much in some classes because or certain students.In some ...

Totally confused by all the mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I have liked this girl for a while and we have become pretty close over the past month. One of my close friends is also pretty close friends with her and he says she told him she likes me and always asks for ...

Did I cheat on my boyfriend, and if so does that mean I'm not happy with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, we've been together for 7 months and it feels very right, like I've found my soul mate. I've been through enough abusive/controlling/violent and generally unhappy relationships to know that I'm definitely ...

Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...

She tells me she needs me... but she's got a boyfriend! How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - help!!! there is this girl who has had one boyfriend all her high school career, they have been going at it for over 2 and a halve years, i started talking to her 8 months ago. i have relaized that im and absolutly 100% in love with this girl, and ...

I feel like I have been "cheated" on, even though we aren't really a couple anyway. Help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend before. But during this past summer, I met this girl at my work who was amazing. I was very shy at first when talking to her, but as I started talking to her I could see we were making a ...

Help! How can I get her to open up to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I have been talking to a girl for while now. She used to text me every day and we would talk for the rest of the night. She knows that I have feelings for her and one day when we were talking she told me about how she had sex with someone three ...

How can I tell him I really like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a wedding, he was the Best Man and I was the Maid of Honor. We hung out all night and he made gestures that made me think he likes me. The problem is, he lives 3 hours away from me and im afraid im falling for him. We just talked ...

What are good ways to show affection that women like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I was just wondering if most women like lots of affection from someone there dating..... What are good ways to show affection that women like ?...

I'm starting to wonder if she doesn't like me, that would be nasty because I really like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - So me and this girl have been texting for a while and we really like eachother. She's really cool and she always tells me I'm sweet and amazing. But when we meet eachother in person she barely makes eye contact with me and she freezes up. She barely ...

Worried about the aspect of my genitals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - is it normal for one side of the inside of the vagina to "hang" lower than the other?! its made me well paranoid lol.. dont know if this is normal or not! also, do boys care about girls having a fat vagina?! coz i mean im a bigger girl and yer i was ...

She doesn't love him so should I tell her what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - i fall in love with my best friend, its great when im with her but it is also confusing.i love her soo much.. and sometimes i feel like i got to tell her what i feel, but i dont know if she feels the same way. she loves me but not like i love her, ...

She's horrible so why can't I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - So I know this girl. And shes really, really talented. and attractive. charismatic. And, even though she had some obvious red signs, I thought we clicked and became friends. Eventually this turned into something more and unexpected. I got to know ...

I have fantasies about giant women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I'm not sure how else I can say this. I have a foot fetish, but on top of that, also deal with macrophilia, where I have fantasies of giantess. The problem is, I get extremely aroused by the thought of being eaten by a giant woman, or stepp...

Should I end it if he doesn't trust me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - please help me, i'm 16 and have been going with my boyfriend for 1year and 9months, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i really regret this and would never be unfaithful to him, however, my boyfriend has trouble ...

What can I do about the rumors being spread about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - hi am 15 and i have been having a hard time at school a girl has spreaded a rumor about me, the rumor is that am a lesbain it was ages ago but ever since then everyone has been shouting names at me like lesbo lesbain it really upsets me my mum and ...

Should I practice patience or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Okay so two years ago my mum made this friend and it was just a coincidence that she had four kids two of which are the same ages of me and my sister (both boys).The moment i met my mum's friends son i was very attracted to him when i met him,...

Boyfriend gave me an unwanted hickey?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - OK hi my name is mimmy.im 20 years old.and me and my boyfriends been together for 5 1/2 months. and he gave me a hickey.that i clearly didnt want.but If i tell him no he will stop and look at me and tell me why? why? you have another man at ...

Single for so long! What can I do to get guys to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Hi, ok so iv been single for a long time now, bout 4years and even before that I have never been involved in a proper relationship. Ths is rally starting to get me down. I feel that I do have issues with my self-confidence and at times do not fee...

How do I tell my dad about my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with one of my best girl friends since early May, though we admitted we had feelings for eachother late last year. It's been about 6 months now, all our friends now know about us, after having kept it secret for around 5 ...

After having sex my vagina is inflamed, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I had sex, not for the first time and now my vagina is really painful and the labia minora can be seen, its kinda inflamed. I don't not what to do. I am not under age but my mum would still go mental, help please...

Why doesn't she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Ok so this is kinda complicated. There's this girl that I've known since she was born, we'll call her connie and I'm in love with her. She is my best friend's sister, we'll call him Ted and I know things will NEVER happen between us. It's kinda ...

Should I let my guard down and give it a try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My best friend, who is a male, is soo great. we have been friends for about two and a half years. hes easy to talk and has always been there for me when im with "the other guy". when im hurt by somebody else, i run to him and he comforts me. he has ...

I lied to her... and now she ignores my messages.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i ...

Does it sound like he told his brother about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - All last year I had a really big crush on this guy. There were a lot of reasons that led me to believe that he liked me too, but we are both REALLY shy and never went any where. I thought I would get over him over the summer, but I didn't. This year ...