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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...

What gift can I get my online boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I have an online boyfriend, the only problem is I want to get him something for his birthday, and he's isn't comfortable giving me his adress. Any ideas for what I can get him? ...

What should I say to get him to really understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - my fiance is sneaking and talking to his ex behind my back. i've confronted him about it but he still does it anyways. what should i do to get him to understand how much this bothers me?...

14 and pregnant...Help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...

My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) - heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they ...

Help, I need information about losing my virginity!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My new bf has been wanting me to have sex with him, but im still not too sure that i want to. I dont no if it will hurt or if i will get caught by my parents but they are never there tho. I'm still a virgin and i don't no about how anything feels. ...

Does he act like he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I like this guy at school. We are both in the band. I like him alot. My friends say he likes me to but idk. He stares at me ALL the time. At a football game about a month ago he told me i was pretty, but he has NEVER talked 2 me since. When he sees ...

I suddenly have this weird feeling that I am gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - I am 13 and I have loads of girlfriends and about a month ago I have been having this weird feeling that I am gay and I don't want to be, I want to straight! What is happening and when will it go away? Please help, I don't want to be gay, I have ...

I really like her but have trouble starting a conversation with her... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - I have a friend in my sociology class who I just recently started talking to, I really like talking to her and I like her a lot but more than just a good friend. I have feelings for her but haven't said anything. I am a junior and she is a senior, ...

I don't want to be gay but I keep getting this feeling... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

His cheating has left me feeling so insecure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok this is a little confusing but here goes... I am 6 months pregnant and really don't enjoy having sex. My partner cheated on me before, and I'm worried he will do it again if we stop having sex. I've spoken to him about it and he said that...

What to do?? I am I being too possesive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number ...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...

What do I do to get it into his head that I do not want to get into a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - theres this guy, call him David, i had got to know him during this camp thing from our school which was for 11 days in june last year. we had got pretty close and after we got back, he asked me out sometime near end of august. after eight days i had ...

We have decided to move it together. Good or Bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hey i turned 18 last month. Me and my bf have been together for 9months and hes 22 and has a secure well paid job. I live with my mum and sister but everything i have they pick at we dont get along what so ever and i spend majority of time in my ro...

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out ...

How do I find the hole with the lights out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have recently started having sex. we lost our virginity to each other and its all amazing and that, but i have 2 kinda embarrassing problems that i'm hoping more experienced guys/girls could help me with... 1: When we're naked...

How do I break up with my "back-up" boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I wanted to break up with him because there was so much I didn't know about him - we met on the internet and you know, people don't really like posting personal information about themselves. So yeah, I got prepared and got a "back-up" boyfriend just ...

Is being a close friend a turnoff?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...

My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ...

I always used to turn boys down but now I am ready for a boyfriend! How do I let them know that I wont reject them this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Basically, I'm a decent looking girl who has always frequently been asked out by boys. However, having just hit the age of 15 (which I consider old enough to have a boyfriend) - I also had enough self respect to refrain myself from the previous ...

My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...

He wants sex, I want to wait, how do I tell him and not get him angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and myself have been talking about sex he keeps saying he is ready and i an to but i want to wait a little longer what should i tell him so he will understand and wont get mad at of...

Does it sound like he isn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - There is a man who I connected with very strongly the first time we met. We had so many things in common and confided in each other. We realized we lived 3 1/2 hours away from each other. He got my number and said he needed to take me on a date. ...

Out of all of my dates, I don't want to date any of them again, am I too picky?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - In the past month I have been on numerous dates. Out of all these guys I don't want to date any of the guys. They all have great qualities and I have a great time with them but I don't want to continue dating any of them. Does it sound like I am ...

There is a guy who lives a long way from me, but I like him a lot, how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - There is one guy I want to date. He lives a ways away and its hard to get together. I am trying to get over him because I don't think it will work but ever since I have met him there have been numerous guys who want to date me. I find none of ...

...but should I stay with him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ok so ive been dating this guy for like a month and a couple days now and i think i really like him but like im not sure and usually wen i go over to his house his best friend is over there and me and my boyfriend got into an argument because ...

How do I tell her I have a thing about feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend love each other very much and I trust her a lot, enough to maybe reveal my secret to her. I have foot fetish, she has the cutest feet I have ever laid my eyes on, and she makes it so I can't keep my attention off them some ...

Where can we have sex without being interrupted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm losing my virginity to one of my guy-friends really soon, but i don't know when yet.....i'm really nervous, and i dont know what i need to expect, because i literally know nothing about sex....i don't want to get down on the bed with a guy ...