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writes:Hello.What can someone do while kissing to make if very enjoyable for the other person. What should we do with are hands? Should we bite your lip? Any tips?
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (29 October 2009):
Nic390 is verified as being by the original poster of the question All of this was very helpful. I'm very grateful for everyone's feel back. I really likes all the details. I will try all this when I get a chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Okay, take advice from a good-kissing girl who had kisses stolen from her and was badly kissed more times than I care to remember: (not to mention begged for more kisses because I learned to do it RIGHT!)
1. Cup her face in your hands or at least cup one along her jaw or under her chin. Be VERY gentle, though! This is kind of old fashioned but you can't imagine the jolt of electricity you'll send through her before your lips even touch from this one small, super-sweet and tender touch.
2. ALL kisses MUST begin SLOW!!! Lean in, look down at her lips and pause before you gently and BARELY touch your lips to hers. Not too much force. Apply more pressure to feeling her lips BETWEEN yours instead of smashing your face & mouth into hers. Make sense? Kiss her lips between yours but don't push into her face or make her lips smash against her gums.
If you freak out and rush in for a kiss, break the first lip-lock and pause. Then very, very, very softly kiss her lips. Showing her you have this type of restraint tells her unconscious mind that you will not hurt/force her in any way because you are totally in control and it will make her WANT you to be a bit more 'out of control' and passionate with her. It should trigger a pretty passionate response from her!
3. BREAK THE FIRST KISS JUST BEFORE IT HEATS UP and sofly run your bottom lip along hers. This is a rare and lost technique that will make her heart race and her mind do backflips. Just a little brush of your bottom lips together, followed by another gentle kiss. PAUSE. Then pick up where you left off. Again, you're telling her you have restraint, you care for her, you want to feel her lips on yours and you're respectful of her feelings and are showing true feelings of your own.
She should be a puddle on the ground by now!
4. CONTACT HER THE NEXT DAY. Don't kiss and run. You already revealed your cards and told her you liked her by kissing her. If you wait for two or three days or whatever RIDICULOUS nonsense your brothers/cousins/uncles told you, she'll be pissed and GONE. Here's what she's thinking:
Contact Immediately After you kiss & part: You're really in to her and want her. It's a bit obvious. She'll have the upper hand now.
Contact her the next morning after the kiss: She'll know you've been thinking of her and will melt. Great way to hint that you're really into her without appearing desparate. She's on your mind and you're not ashamed to admit it.
Contact her the next afternoon/evening/night after the kiss: You like her and you're polite enough to not keep her waiting. She's happy to have heard from you today. Her friends have had worse luck before...
Contact her two days after the kiss: She was pissed by morning number two but will probably forgive you. She'll be guarding her heart so be prepared to do some gut-spilling to make up for your delay in calling.
Contact her three days after the kiss: She thinks you're a player and are just using her. Expect some hostility. If you had a crush on her, you just blew your chance. Apologze profusely. Crying will be required to show you mean it.
Contact her 4+ days after the kiss: Expect an a*s chewing. You deserve it. What kind of game are you playing?
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reader, Nic390 +, writes (20 October 2009):
Nic390 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help. I have one other question thats a bit random. Does anyone know the right girth for a 16 year old?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): well it kind of depends on what the other person likes, so i suggest you ask them first. Personally, i love romantic kisses and also the sloppy ones but not everyone is the same, so that's why you should ask. Biting is something that feels nice but for others they might hate it so again i say it all depends on what the other person likes. Hope this helped and Good Luck
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reader, shabana47  +, writes (20 October 2009):
Everyone likes different things...the best thing to do is start slowly and then figure out from their response what they like. Until you know for sure, no really sloppy tongue, no hard biting, etc. You'll be able to build a rhythm and figure it out from there.
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reader, Esperanza +, writes (20 October 2009):
Of course, what someone likes varies from person to person, but here are a few tips just to get started. Put your hands around her waist or hold her hands. Sometimes biting the bottom lip can feel really nice but do not bite too hard! Usually, it is noce to go slowly at first, maybe pick it up a bit if she seems to be ok with everything. Also, what people give is often what they want, so maybe copy a little of what she is doing to you and do it back. Hope this helps! If you want any more detail, send a message or post an update.
Good luck! Have fun!!
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