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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He has his girlfriend to love but what about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - K so I guess I kind of like this guy.. We use to date.. He has been texting me recently saying like do u regret breaking up with me and stuff like that.. He keeps saying he wants to mess around with me but he has a gf and today he asked me if I ...

What is the best way to ask out a stranger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - I really fancy a girl that works in a local shop, but dont know how to ask her out. How could i tell if she fancied me ? P.S we're both teenagers...

I'm a teenage guy and I have no idea if I'm gay or straight.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Im a young guy, and i have always had sexual urges towards men.I also have sexual urges towards women but not as strong. However I have been completely and utterly in love with women, but my sexual desires towards men have gone unchanged.I have ...

He had sex with my ex-friend - how can I get over my insecurities about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'd just like someone to help me figure out why I have such a problem with this. I'm 17 years old, almost 18 and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend (19, almost 20) for over a year now. This is my first proper relationship and he's the ...

His 'jokes' keep striking a nerve - what do I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone. I said hold on, and when I came back, I made my voice deeper to sound like a guy on purpose. We laughed it off, and he said, "Oh yea, like I'll fall for that." I kept going along, "Yes, can't ...

Should I talk to him about becoming more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - well me and this guy have been friends for like ever! nothing sexual at all but we decided that maybe it would be fun to do. and he ahs liked me for awhile now and i have liked him but he left for college in august and its been hard ever since ...

Should I just get over my boyfriend having phone sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend saw 2 of his ex-girlfriends this week, randomly. which didn't bother me. but 2 gays after he saw them, we were having phone sex because he goes out of town for work. and he was getting into it and he almost said their names twice. he ...

Is being attracted to a different race wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - im 13 and i wondering if youre this race and your more attracted to a different race, is it wrong? like a chinease but im latino. help...

Is he just being polite or is he interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - ok so here it goes. everyday when i walk to campus i pass this really cute guy. each time we pass each other he makes eye contact with me and smiles. is he interested? or is he just being polite? im not good at reading guys signals so i need some ...

Should I say something? I'm super afraid of getting hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating for just a little over a month. Unfortunately, somethings happened about a week after we got together that put some distance between us and we werent really able to see or talk to each other. As a result, we ...

Is there something I can do to grab a guy's attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hi, i am 20 years old and i have yet to snag a boyfriend. I consider myself to be a really nice person who is always there to help others when they need it. But for some reason guys only see me as someone they could be friends with...nothing more. ...

I want my ex to be happy but it hurts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - about 6 month ago, me and by girlfriend broke up after 2 years together, nothing happened we just couldnt see each other as much due to college so we grew apart, about 2 weeks ago she got back in contact with me, is was abit awkward but everything ...

Do you think if I'm patient she will realize I'm the right guy for her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Im head over heels in love with this girl who lives on the same dorm floor. I spend about 4-5 hours a day with her. We talk about everything... her relationships with her family, how high school was, sports, books, music, movies, literally everythi...

We had an argument, and he's threatening to go back to cutting. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Please help me.. My boyfriend and I have a strong relationship, and I love him to death. He is kinda half-emo, and he's cut himself before. I don't want it to happen again.. We got in an argument and he's threatening to cut himself this Fri...

When will it grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Im 14, 15 in a month and i am very insecure about the size of my penis. Im not as endowed as some of the other guys at school. and it kinda brings me down. It kinda makes me feel bad about myself when i cant fill my pants up properly. Yeah, im ...

Will he know if I'm a virgin

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - im seeing this lad and i told him im not a virgin, and we both want to have sex i dont want him to kno that im a virgin will he find out after having sex with me?? i cant tell him im a virgin either but i use tampons and ive been fingerd a few times ...

Love problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Some one please help! See theres this girl I like in my classes but I cant tell if she likes me or not. I keep having the feeling she does, but then one part of me is saying "no she doesnt" I'm so confused right now!! I think she likes me because...

I need help about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

I think he uses me for oral sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for 6months now. and i really like him. I dont feel tho that he feels the same way. it some times feels like he only meets up wit me for oral sex. how do i stop this and make him actually love me? should i stop all ...

Do I trust him or trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months lives about 35 minutes away from me and i only see him once every 2 sometimes 3 weeks. we have managed to make it work so far. he says he loves me and i love him too. the only thing is that he's cheated on me about 2 months ...

What do I do about my issues

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7 October 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend to death, but somethings driving us apart. i think its me, he hasnt changed much, but i just never feel happy anymore. its nothing hes done to make me unhappy, and i dont mean unhappy in the relationship, i mean just generally ...