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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Should the guy always lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - I've been taught that on dates, the guy does all the leading. Leading toward sex, cool. But do girls (the types who can get any guy) have to have the guy leading everything else too? I guess it's not as attractive if the guy doesn't feel like the ...

Is it possible to get a fresh start with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had been dating for a little over 2 months at that point when she did it. Her reason was because that she was scared and it may have been going a little too fast paced for her. I know I messed ...

Should I have sex with her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hi iv been out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she is a little bit older tgan me and she wants to have sex but im not fully comfident with my body i have muscle but iv got a bit of fat on my belly only a little and it knocks my confidence ...

He wants to take things to the next level. Will he dump me if I don't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - i am totally in love with my bf and he loves me but he thinks we should move on to the next step and that is sex what should i do? me and my bf have bein going out for 6 years i was in six grade and he was my brothers friend in 8th grade. i am 16 ...

What can I do to stop this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Someone plz give me some advice!!! I have no trouble talking to guys ... I can flirt just fine and ive had guys like me before and some even ask me out.. Not to brag but alot! So i have no troublemaking guys like me but the only thing is when i d...

Is it weird to love the taste of a guy's cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) - is it weird to love the taste of a mans cum? i have been giving oral sex since i was 14 and i have always loved the feeling and taste of when a guy would "finish" in my mouth! i was talking to my friend about it and she said that she would never ...

I crave a better body!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) - hello, i am 16, have a bf of 3 months now who is 19. he is so supportive and i know he loves me and always tells me how gorgeous i am. the problem is, i crave a better body! i am 5'2" 104 lbs. i workout constantly, every single day i go to yoga and ...

I'm confused and scared but he's playing games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been kind of a on and off realtionship for a year and a month. we finally had sex after a year and the third time we had sex the condom had busted, and we arent together. he told me he would step up and be a man if i got ...

At what age can I legally move in with my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Hi. Right, my problem. I HATE my dad. I really hate him! My parents have divorced and they now live only a couple of streets away from each other. My brothers and i spend half the week with mum and the other half with our dad. I was wondering,...

How can I help my younger brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My brother is 14 and is just starting highschool. Over the summer he has gotten into cigarettes and weed with his friends. I am worried about him because i didnt think he was like that. I understand he wants to experiment and that its a normal part ...

My ex: do you think I should meet up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Something wired happened yesterday .. the whole day I was thinking about my ex boyfriend and how I missed him. Its strange for me to dwell on something so much, especially since we broke up last January, hadnt spoken in months and i've been in and ...

My teacher offered to tutor me sexually. Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I am a highschool graduate who took a fifth year and just turned 19 when school ended. In January of 2009, I started liking one of my teachers. We started chatting casually over the internet throughout the school year and we really connected. He ...

I want my ex back - how do I speed up the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 4 months ago on his terms. But recently he has spoken up and thinks he still loves me, he says he misses us and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else but isn't sure yet. He is going away for a ...

What if he rejects my advances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - ok i go to this school where last year during a trip to france i fell in love with this boy hes smart athletic and to me really really cute, but im just really ordinary i dont have a modal figure im not really popular and im not that confident ...

Why6 do I find it annoying that he tries to look cool in front of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My best friend texted me for the first to tell me that he got his license. Me and him have been on and off sometimes he is so sweet to me and texts me all night and other times he ends our conversation. Why if I compliment him does he not say ...

Is 9 years too much of a gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - hi everyone i like this girl who i don't know i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are a good few y...

Too big of a crush to just move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Ok, so here goes. I am 17, 18 in January. I live in th UK, so he is my college teacher, lets call him Jamie. I'll tell you the parts that i can't understand, and then i will ask the question. I was 16 when i started college, of course, and i kn...

If you have an open relationship, is it possible to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I wanted to have an open relationship with my boyfriend because he would start getting really clingy and jealous and started alienating me from everything. He said he was okay with the open relatinship because he wanted to do "anything to kee...

How can I boost my bosom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - i am 14 years old and my breasts are too small they look like one cup! What should i do to make them grow or atleast to make them look bigger without using medical stuff??...

Could this be classed as consensual sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend always wanted to have sex, and when i told him no, that i didnt want to, he would would always guilt trip me into not actually saying yes, but still let him go through with it. Is that even considered consensual sex? ...

We have become good friends, and I'm too shy to ask him out. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, last year some guy asked me out a few times and I said no. We've been talking a lot and have become really good friends. we have sooooo much in common and i think i might like him. Some of my friends think he's mean and that hes not good...

Confused about how (physically) close she wants to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - So im in 9th grade, im 13(but look 15-16, occording to alot of people)and this girl that asked me if i wanted to go out with her is 16(but looks like 14-15 to me) and were both getting along good, but shes sending me pretty strange messages about ...

Is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost two months and a few weeks ago he told me that he was in love with me and that he wanted me to move in with him although we are both young im 19 and he is 22 we both have our own places i like him alot and could ...

She's not particularly pretty, so should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - I met a girl over the weekend that I've been talking to online since then. I think her personality is absolutely AMAZING. I LITERALLY can't remember the last time I've had THIS much fun talking to a girl. Ever. And we've both made it clear to each ...

He broke up with me, started seeing another girl, but says he still loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Ok, heres the thing: I had this boyfriend for about four months. He was like the best. But he was also a flirt. There was one girl (who was actually my ex best friend) that he always flirted with and hung out with more than me. One day, he brok...