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What is the deal with this guy?

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Question - (19 February 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

We had a big argument we made up after that and i didnt hear from him and i didn’t contact him either and 2day he called me after a few weeks and he was acting like nothing is happened he was just asking me how am doing and i told him to call me back later cos i was busy. Why is he calling me(don’t say sex cos there’s no way am having sex with him) after we argued and made up and everything was fine and ignored me 4 such a long time.. Am soo confused.

• WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM?

• WHAT DO I DO NOW?

• WITH HIM HE DOESNT TALK TO ME MUCH LIKE I WOULD WANT TO.

(He was like a close book)

After a few months he changed and became very distant, went calling me much and he would argue and yell at me all the time. When we made up everything was ok then he went very distant again and wasn’t calling me at all and i ring him and said ive miss him and that i wanted see him he wasn't straight forward on when i would see or he would yell at me on the phone.

He said i was cheating on him when ive been totally devoted to him he said i was taking him for granted when i wasn’t. I felt really bad that he didn’t know how much he meant to me. he wanted reassurance all the time. He totally changed and i was very confused and he made out like everything was my fault saying i was the 1 that’s changed and i was questioning myself to much i was soo stressed out i was going crazy.

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