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He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

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Question - (19 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *hortstuff4789 writes:

I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't even get flowers or chocolate...

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A female reader, shortstuff4789 United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

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shortstuff4789 agony auntthanks everyone!

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A female reader, shortstuff4789 United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

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shortstuff4789 agony auntno i didnt but you need to understand... we have a very special connection... he almost can read my mind. its very interesting. he knows everything i need and want and i know his. its very unique. and he said he did have something for me. and so im wondering now if he lied and forgot he said it. but its ok im not really upset any more...

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A female reader, shortstuff4789 United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

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shortstuff4789 agony auntyeah i guess i really shouldnt be upset... it just is weird and not like him at all we did have a good time and i guess that all that matters thanks

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A male reader, jam jar United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

jam jar agony auntIf gifts dont matter to you why are you upset? He probably thinks that he doesn't need to give you gifts for you to love him which he shouldn't. You're making a big deal out of nothing.

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A female reader, shortstuff4789 United States +, writes (19 February 2009):

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shortstuff4789 agony auntto mee x i know that gifts arEnt everything and i know he didnt have to but the week before V day he said he had gotten me something... so thats why i was expecting it...

a.danica i know what you mean... but this is the first time he hasnt gotten me anything for a holiday... its just not like him. thank you

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A female reader, a.danica United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2009):

No. you said you've bin together for 3 years so he's only got you a present the other two years he probably thinks he doesnt have to anymore because you know how much he loves you

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