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writes:Hi , i am 15 years old and i am very confused , and in need of advice of a few things , im sorry that this is long.. , my ex bf keeps on asking me out , nd i keep on saying i cant go out with him , like i like him alot , its just the night i broke up with him i met up with an old bf "mark" nd well it was a mistake because now i might be pregnant , i dont no what to do , like how am i supose to tell him that i might be pregnant , he tells me that he loves me , but im not sure if its true. My other problem is i dont no how to tell my mom , like shes way to over reacting towards me because im her (baby) , i dont no what to do anymore , nd i told "mark" that i might be pregnant , nd he dosent want anything to do with me , or if there is a baby , he dosent want anything to do with the baby ither , i want my child to have a father , i grew up with out a father nd i hated it , i atleast want my babys father to be there , what am i supose to do, am i supose to go to back with "josh" and a baby? , i do work , i babysitt for 20$ a day, i make pretty good money , nd i have been doing it since i was 11 but what am i supose to do with a baby , i LoVE kids , but i think im too young and adobition,and an aborition is outta the question ,
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reader, jman09  +, writes (9 April 2009):
Right sorry if i sound harsh, but what are you doing having unprotected sex at 15?. your way too young to look after the baby it will screw your life up, you won't be able to go out with friends or have a social life or get good grades. i know it will be hard but you really shoud get an abortion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Well first and formost before you stress take a pregnancy test. Also just to be sure make an appointment at the doctor too. And if its negative do me a favor and start using condoms. Pregnancy is not the only scare here, you could end up wit han STD and then what would you do? Having sex is serious business and if you are going to do it then you have to be smart about it.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 well dear its very hard to take care of a child. i believe that you should talk to a dr. and see if you are surely pregnant.i am sure your mom would be angry but eventually shell understand you have to tell your mom very calmly and stand up for why you want to keep the baby. as for the guys the one that chooses that he wants to be apart of both of your guys' life is the keeper. the biological dad, whether he wants to be in the childs lofe or not will still be required by law to pay childs support. i dont know if this helped but good luck
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reader, psychologystar +, writes (9 April 2009):
First of all, you need to be 100% sure. Go and see your doctor. You should also get checked out for potential STI's.
Talk to your mum. Make a list of everything you want to say beforehand so you don't get lost in an argument.
I can't tell you what to do, and you obviously have firm views on adoption and abortion, but you need to think about what would be best for your baby. Adoption seems to be the best option. You can talk to your doctor about the options available to you.
You have your whole life ahead of you and would not be able to provide for a baby to the best of your ability. A child should grow up with 2 parents, and this Mark guy doesn't want to know. Your child could grow up with 2 parents that will love him/her and give him/her a good home.
Good luck with everything and I hope I've helped.
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