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writes:Ok, I'm 13, in the 8th Grade, and I like to fantasize about having group sex and individual sex with about 4+ of my male teachers. I know this will never happen, but I get so aroused by thinking about it. I am very attracted to older hairy men, and it sounds weird, but it's true. What should I do to control these urges? Please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): hi i think group sex is really horny things.
Every body at some stage or the other think about having group sex though the fantasy may not become a reality.
So keep fantasizing and It ur imagination let it run wild.
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reader, NightLad +, writes (8 April 2009):
 Hi there,Actually it does not sound weird at all to me. I know several guys who went through the same thing at your age. I was one of them!At first I was concerned about being attracted to somebody so much older, and a teacher no-less! But then one day I realized something: my school had a female French teacher who happened to possess very large breasts. Almost every boy in school would talk about her anatomy whenever they were out of earshot of the other teachers. The boy’s locker room was rife with her name.These other guys were going through the same thing I was, but unlike them, I was not able to openly share my attraction to my gym and shop teachers. It just goes to prove; different strokes for different folks.To answer your question; we can’t help who we find attractive, because, especially at your age, it is largely subconscious. Even if you scolded yourself every time you had one of these fantasies in your daily life, there is very little you can do to prevent dreaming about it.Having fantasies is perfectly normal and healthy. Fantasies provide us with the ability to find release in desires and urges we may never indulge during our real-lives. You are going to notice over the years (and probably for the rest of your life) that you frequently find people in all aspects of your life attractive and fantasy-worthy, whether a teacher or a classmate, a boss or even a stranger.What I suggest you do is read up on the American Psychological Association’s definition of Sexual Orientation. Perhaps it can help you sort out some of these feelings and give you perspective. I am not suggesting you should label what you feel just yet, only familiarize yourself with the terms. That information can be found here: http://www.apa.org/topics/sorientation.htmlI hope this helps!
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