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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is he ignoring me because he doesn't want to be the reason I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I am in the middle of a finishing a long term relationship, with which we have a beautiful three year old. It has been a very stressful relationship. It has taken me' three years to finish it. He leaves on Wednesday. Over the last year I have...

Been in love for 2 years with her but afraid to tell her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am in love with my best friend and have been for about 2-3 years but over them years we have become very close. But I wanna tell her but as you can see we are both girls . . . but also I don't wanna do anything that might ruin our friendship?? ...

Should we tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Laura - my best friend Mike - my boyfriend and my best friend Fabio - Mike's best friend and my good friend Well Laura likes Mike ALOT. She knows that I like him as well and that he likes me. What she doesn't know is that we are going out. F...

How do I approach my work colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - hey i like this girl at work but i dont know how to ask her out... once i asked her she said no... i might think she like me too... but i dont know how to approach her!!...

I really think that I'm in love with a friend of mine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I really think that im in love with a friend of mine. We talk ALL the time, make each other laugh and we are really close. I told him that i liked him as more then a friend and asked if he liked me in the same way but he said that he wasn't sure ...

Is this worth pursuing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I've been thinking about telling this guy that I like him and I want to get to know him more. We've only known each other for a few months However, in the past I have been nervous about telling guys that I like them due to the fear of rejectio...

Subtle flirtation tips needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi I need some subtle flirtation tips to use tonight on this guy I've fancied for about a month. There is a chance he likes me too but I'm not sure. I'm going out with a group of friends 2nite and he's one of them. Please help!...

Why do I always get so nervous when I go out on a date and how can I calm down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - ok so last night i met this guy through mutual friends. he is really nice and wants to take me out on a date. the only problem is me. every time i go on a date i get extremely anxious before hand. like i cant eat etc. im 21 and i have never been ...

I want to be good mates with him again but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Dear all agony aunts and uncles at cupid. i have a slight problem, and i think i know what i need to do, but i would like your advice too. so there's this guy, and i've ALWAYS had a thing for him, and he knew but i don't think he's ever had a ...

Why can't I keep friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Going off what people tell me, I am a nice person. I am a genuine, trustworthy and kind. I'm not bitchy and I don't talk about people behind their backs I to am fun to be around. I seem to make people laugh even though I am not funny, I'm just ver...

I wonder if I am just building false hope for myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hi there, was just wondering if I could get peoples thoughts on this, Theres this guy I met and I have fallin head over heals for him and have done for about 3 months now. But about 2 months ago he started going out with another guy. It wasn't u...

I am crazy about him, is it too soon to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but ...

How do I make this whole thing work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - So i have this guy friend who became slightly more than just a friend. I was never really interested in him, didn't see him as that attractive though other girls seem to be very impressed by him and find him charming... Anyway, somewhere along ...

I love her but she loves her husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hey all, just some advice...I'm a single 38 year old male that is in love with my female best friend, that is married. nine years ago her and I met and it was a moment in time I will never forget. I could see that she could see right through me and ...

He has stopped connecting with me, should I call or email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I have known this guy from for over 7 years. We met back in college. We had a nice connection, and strong passion between us. I have not heard from him for a while. Should I call him or email him? I have known this guy from for over 7 years. W...

I want to know how to approach girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - Hello A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me a few days before our 1 year anniversary. We are still decent friends and talk frequently. She told me that this weekend she is going on a date and may begin to date. I want to move on and begi...

My ex said he would meet up with me but keeps putting it off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking on and off..i recently asked if he wanted to talk more often and he said ok and that he had no problem with that and i mentioned about meeting soon and he said ok to that as well. It took him about 10 days to call aft...

Two girls like me, but will going out with one of them ruin their friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (M) - There is girls in my class and they both like me. But I like only one of them and I am afraid if I go out with one I might screw up their friendship. How can i decide? I need help....

Could he just want to be friends or is he trying to build a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - We are both in relationships but a man whom I met 2 times thru works keeps texting me about everyday life. He text me sometimes several times a day. He is flirty but never crosses a line. Could he just want to be friends or is he trying to build a ...

I got into a lot of fights with my friend, and now he wont talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Me and my friend got into a lot of stupid fights and now he won't talk to me! I've said sorry and everything, all he keeps saying is "its not your fault." But I still feel like its my fault. So I decided to give him space after that, something ...

Autism is preventing me from having relationships. Help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - I was diagnosed with Aperger's syndrome when I was a young child. The basic description of that is that you are exceptional at some things and lacking at others. I, for one, have photographic memory. Many people say that they have it, but the...

My male friend is mad at me because I talked to my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - A male friend of is mad at me because I had a conversation with my ex-boyfriend today.I quit being friends with my ex about 2 months ago..My ex has called and text,but I havent responded... So my male friend told me just to text him and say I had ...

I need suggestions for a special gift

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

9 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. This isn't much of a relationship question but here it goes: My best friend is moving away next year, he's like a brother to me and I'd really like to do something really special for him before he leaves. Whenever we exchange gifts d...