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*allenangel95
writes:Me and my friend got into a lot of stupid fights and now he won't talk to me! I've said sorry and everything, all he keeps saying is "its not your fault." But I still feel like its my fault. So I decided to give him space after that, something happened at home and I was really upset and needed someone to talk to. I texted saying that he didn't need to respond and that i just needed someone to talk to. I thought he wouldn't, cause I thought he hated me. But he responded back and asked what was wrong. We talked for a couple minutes about what had happened he said that everything was going to be ok and he said that "you strong though and you will make it." I missd him so much so I asked him so question about how he was a stuff. And I asked him about what would he do if he wanted to hug "someone" but was nervous too. And he said that he wouldn't because if I truely wanted to hug this "person" then I would have already. Of course I was talking to him, he was so wrong all wanted to do was hug him, and I was planning on hugging him whenever time. He was so wrong,he bit my head off and now I don't want to go anywhere near him..but I still miss him and love him so much. I know I need to give him space but its just killing me. Everyone thinks i'm crazy cause all they say is "your so stupid fallenangel95, all he does is hurt you, but you still love him." I'm so confused in my time of need he was there for me, but then he bites my head off. I'm so confused and lost, and I need help! what do I do? give him some more time? Just forget him completly? Or try to talk to him (again) What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 If he is hurting you like this then the best thing to do is completely forget him, this is all part of growing up and learning believe me, your heart will be broken so many times and there will be plenty of times were people hurt you, its al part of growing up and am afraid we just have to deal with it and move on, so if he is hurting you then he is not worth your time, so ignore him dont contact him and if he contacts you tell him you are sick of him biting your head off and that you dont deserve to be treated that way good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Hiya Sweet,
Okay so i'm not sure if you're interpreting that you like this guy or not, but it kind of seems like you do.
To Be Completely honest, it sounds like he cares; just by the fact that as soon as you said you needed someone to talk to he replied, if it was me i would go see him to his face, because that way he can't ignore you and he has to respond in some way and atleest that way you will know.
if you don't have a lot of confidence in doing that, then maybe write him an email or a long text, just telling him how you feel.. or you could ring him?
i hope i have helped, let me know how it goes
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