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Two girls like me, but will going out with one of them ruin their friendship?

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Question - (9 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is girls in my class and they both like me. But I like only one of them and I am afraid if I go out with one I might screw up their friendship. How can i decide? I need help.

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A female reader, bethevans United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2010):

bethevans agony auntFirstly,

you sound like such a decent guy, first i've heard a guy actually caring about what happens on the girls behalf.

if i were you i would just tell her, because that's all you can do really, and i think if the girl was to find out that her friend is the reason you arn't with her, that might screw them up anyway. so just tell her.

Hope it helped!XoX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):

The two girls have to decide between them if they would be ok with the other going out with you. If they choose to have a bond against going out with you, then you could be screwed.

My advice, talk to the one you really like, let her know how you feel. You already know that she likes you too, so that's the easy part. The hard part is that she would need to communicate with her friend, since her feelings are involved for the same guy. I had a situation like that once, but it was with my cousin. We both liked this guy and he liked my cousin more. After I knew that, I was ok with them dating. In fact, I got over him in no time and was on to the next one. After all,true friends won't let a man come between them - whichever way the coin falls.

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (9 October 2010):

LLindy87 agony aunttricky...perhaps tell the girl you like that you like her but you don't want to screw up their friendship

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