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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to? There is a guy I know who I now is strongly attracted to me as I can tell by his body language but I believe he is in a relationship. I do not want to lost contact with him bu...

Should I tell her I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Ok, so at i met this girl at camp and fell for her. We became friends, everytime I was near her my heart began to beat faster and I`d get alittle nervous. She left camp for awlie and when she came back I had thous same feelings for a day and then ...

I thought I was his girlfriend? Why did he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We used to text every day, he used to be really nice and romantic with me. we started having sex, and he is the best i ever had. he started calling me his gf for a while but as a joke. after a ...

Is it wrong for me to want her so badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - So this girl I like a lot said we are just friends and that is alright with me but I keep thinking I made a mistake by telling her I like her. My other friends say I am wasting my time and I don't feel that way at all. every time I talk to her I ...

Why did he not text me back? Was he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone One thing thats been on my mind since last nite I was sleeping with this guy and 4 weeks ago he called it all off, anyway we do still talk and get on ok through txt last nite when i was taking, a mate hope who lives near h...

I want to be more than his mid life crisis...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I am very seriously considering getting involved with a much older man. He is in his mid-40s and I am turning 18 in the fall. Obviously we have to wait to see each other; we are currently just talking online. The age thing ...

What to do... I like my brother's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm 13 and I like my brother's best friend he's 15. I just found out that he likes me the same way but doesn't want anyone to know. Then he told me that he just broke up with his gf. Wut should i do??? ...

Who is in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Ello! I am new here, but my question has been in my life for over a decade. See, my mom had this friend, which I will call her Kanine, and she has a son, which I will call Ahola. They have been in my life over a decade and I just can't stand them! ...

The condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on two years together. We've been arguing a lot lately so the past weekend I didnt hear from him nor did I see him. He keeps a condom in his wallet, its been there for months, thats our emergency condom because we have ...

I fancy this lad but I'm trying not to get caught. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm liking this lad who comes over to see his grandma who lives next door. He is 18 and im 15, i dont know if this is illigal but i really like him and he really likes me. But ever since he came over his grandma (My mam's best friend) is really ...

She said we are "just friends..."

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - well about 5 months ago I met this girl Natalie, she was everything I ever wanted and she knew it. I probably made a mistake telling her that I like her and she thought it was cute. I talk to her almost every day and have asked her out a few ...

Usually friends just drift apart but these girls seem to want revenge of some sort. How do I find peace and move on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

20 July 2010 (?) - I feel stupid and way too old to be writing about this, but I need to clear my head and get some outside perspectives on this situation. I have ex-friends from childhood with whom I used to be very close with. Over time, I realized they always had ...

Did I damage the friendship? Did I do the right thing? Was I creepy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I have a relationship with a woman that started as a flirtation, then because of me being unavailable at the time, it turned into a close friendship. We talked about it and agreed to "just be friends" because neither of us wanted an affair. Now,...

How much could looks affect you being able to get a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I dont want this to come across vain or wrong as this is not my intention nor what I am like. But I need to figure this out so I will word it the best I can. I am a successful fashion model - soceity regards me as being "attractive". I do not ...

Productive ways to deal with flakey people...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - This is a recurring problem in my life: flakey friends, partners, ex'es. I get really upset and angry when this happens, because of a history of friends letting me down at the worst possible time. I realise now at 25 I have to confront this an...

Is this guy just stringing me along?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - i need help as im really torn up... i met this guy about 2 months ago and he started coming to mine and we text every day.. after about a month i started sleeping with him... when hes here he acts like he likes me its like i can tell and the way he ...

What does anyone think he wants because I am so confused right now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - i was seeing a man for 2 years, he became a very very good friend to me, we helped each other throu difficult times, he told me he didnt want a relationship just yet, was into his work and enjoying himself. i had no problem with this man, he was ...

How do I approach her now that she is single again???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - First of all i would like to tell you i am vey intoxicated! so please dont mind my minimal use of puncuation here is my scenario! i have known this girl for about two months and she has had a BF and her and i were so compadible and spent every day ...

Did he really lose my number???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I decided to reconnect with some of my old friends and a guy called george and i decided to go out in the summer ... we werent that close but he is really sweet. we spoke on the phone and we started texting every day but then the text got flirty ...

How can I get closure over my ongoing crush? Part of me will always wonder what could have been.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice on how I should go about gaining closure. I need to fully get over this guy from my past and the regret along with the "what-ifs" are driving me crazy. The thoughts of him are not a constant thing but it does happen once in ...

My husband was having an affair with my best friend who also happens to be my co-worker, how can I maintain a professional relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I recently discovered that my husband was having an affair. We have been married for 21 years and in the course of the affair being revealed I have found a multitude of other lies. There can never be just one! The other woman just happens to have ...