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Why did he not text me back? Was he jealous?

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Question - (20 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone

One thing thats been on my mind since last nite

I was sleeping with this guy and 4 weeks ago he called it all off, anyway we do still talk and get on ok through txt

last nite when i was taking, a mate hope who lives near him and text him asking if he wanted a lift as we will be be heading home soon he text back saying

Who's we? yeah im at the pub actually

Anyway i text back saying my mate who lives near you

and didnt get a reply

But my mate who was with me at the time said it was strange as he text back right away and asked who's we.

She says he was probably thinking i was with some guy and got a bit jealous over me saying that and when i said it was my mate he didnt bother texting back cuz it was safe.

But i couldnt understand that as he always goes on about his girlfriends he sees when he was with me so i couldnt see him jealous.

Does anyone think my mate was right with this???

Thank you very much for reading this xx

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A female reader, romany United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

romany agony auntMy first thought was yes, but then on reflection, and experiences from my past, I honestly now think, No, I dont think he was jealous, that was his male ego asking if you had someone else, probably just wanted to know that his options for having you on tap was still there, if the need arises.

For him to be jealous, he'd have to care, which would mean he'd want to see you, and you provided him with the perfect opportunity to do that, he didn't take it.

He dont want a relationship with you, thats why he ended it, stop wasting your time, phone credit and energies on him, find someone that wants to be with you.

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A female reader, clareloux United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2010):

maybe he aint really go a girlfriend

and hes scared to make a move because he thinks hes hurt u once and you wouldent want him back after he called it off with you if you still like him ask him the truth just send a text saying can i ask you something ? then ask him a question and say what if you still had feelings for someone but they looked like they wasent intrested what would u do ? and see what he replys to that

hope this helps xxxxx

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