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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I slept with my best friend... I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ...

First time jitters...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet ...

Thought I wanted a no strings relationship but only with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him ...

Is a condom enough to help keep me from getting the virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've met a guy who told me that he has genital herpes. He takes Valtrex, and hasn't had an outbreak in two years. I do like him but don't know if taking a risk to have sex with him would be worth it. He says he has only gotten outbreaks on his ...

Should I call him and arrange to meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a training course through my workplace. He walked me to the station everyday over the 2 weeks and I felt so comfortable being around him, he was so easy to talk to and we had a lot in common. Each day, when we were around other ...

I want to help my friend but I don't know who is in the right in this situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - In June 2008 my friend accused his mum of having an affair with her best friend. This caused close family members to all fall out. At this time my friends mum said she wasn’t having an affair but then in may 2009 my friends mum admitted having an ...

My husband has virtually no people skills and I am growing tired of it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Here's one for you. My husband treats me and the kids like gold. No complaints there. He treats our extended families well and also my friends. Notice I wrote my friends - he has none. He's a prick to pretty much everyone else in the world. ...

Is it a good idea to ignore him for a few months so he will eventually give up on me and I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

Is this strange behavior for a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Im so confused! This guy is so different from every other man ive ever met,and I have no idea how to take him.Ive known him for a year.We agreed to be just friends,because he claims he doesnt want a commitment.This was after we were already doing ...

Why won't he commit to anything when he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I meant this guy over 5 years ago,he became a close friend and I ended up falling in love with him and he fell in love with me. During the time I meant him I was in a horrible relationship that I was having a hard time getting out of. To say the ...

What can I do to prove to her it's the real deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend. We've know each other for years (13 to be exact). She knows. She says that she is afraid of losing me when I've made it abundantly clear that nothing, and I mean nothing, could make that happen. I love her too ...

How can you tell if you are hemorrhaging?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I really need help and I don't know who to go to. My question is... How can you tell if you are hemorrhaging? I let my friends make feel insecure about my virginity. So, like a dummy I went out and bought a dildo. It's heavy and glass and I've nev...

Help!!! How do I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - So there is this guy... I think he is so cute and sweet but i think he has changed since high school. Normally i wait till the guy notices me but he is this big hot shot in football at his college now and when he comes around he makes me so nervous ...

Do I wait and see if she comes back to me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - hello everyone, so before i get started ill give a little back story. 2 years ago i met this girl at work who i thought was the most beautiful thing i have ever seen, so far out of my league(mainly because i have severe self confidence issues, even ...

A guy wants me to move in after a week of talking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I work as a hair stylist and a guy that I have cut his hair for a few months started talking and teasing with me. When he would ask for my number I would not give it to him. I ended up giving it to him and we started texting each other. I was ...

How do you stop jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - How do you stop jealousy? There's a girl I'm great friends with and I really like her but she's not interested. It's really painful to hear her talking about going on dates and the sex she's having and stuff. To make matters worse she keeps going ...

He has not texed me or called me which he does whenever we have an argument, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5220 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I am gay and was in a relationship with my best friend for about 6 months we have know each other for about 1 year and a half. I told him about 6months ago that I care for him deeply and I am in love with him. He first said that he lov...

Why is he staring at me now more than ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Today was my crush/friend R was acting totally weird. I gave him a gift before vacation! Today was the first day of school after vacation and everything was normal. Then I was in the computer lab and R walked by after lunch and while he was walking ...

Widowed and lonely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Over a year ago, my husband of 28 years died. I did not realize how lonely and vulnerable I was until now. Four months ago I met a man on the bus that I enjoyed talking to every day for a 30 minute bus ride. Once I accepted his invitation to ...

I want to see how he's doing but it's been 9 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - About 9 years ago I met a guy that still has my heart or maybe my mind. He was the first guy that gave me the butterfly feeling. He was also the first guy to make my heart ached. We didn't have an established relationship, we were getting very ...

Do I have a chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I likes a girl without knowing it and i was sure a lot of the time it was just because the both of us were so shy that nothing was happening. His aunt who hes really close to told me he loves me one day jokingly but she seemed really serious beneath ...

She's only fine with me when her boyfriend's not around... why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - ok, I'm a little frustrated right now. So I really like this girl I met at college a few months ago. found out she had a Boyfriend, so I forced myself to presume she was straight. Wrong. After ignoring me for nearly 2 months, deliberatly not looking ...

Help! How can I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I know this guy through ONLY text and online, but he is a mutual friend.. I here that he is a really great guy and he's super funny, good looking and so nice! I text him a lot and he actually recently just got dumped by his girlfriend.. He seems ...