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*sk The Leprechaun
writes:ok, I'm a little frustrated right now. So I really like this girl I met at college a few months ago. found out she had a Boyfriend, so I forced myself to presume she was straight. Wrong. After ignoring me for nearly 2 months, deliberatly not looking at me, not saying anything (even though i sit right next to her) and being wierdly uncomfortable around me, she finally acknowleges me, we get on well, she says she bi, she's suddenly overly concerned and nice to me, then it's xmas. I don't care that she has a bf, fair enough, I'm not going to do anything, lets just be friends, you know. But the problem is, she's only fine with that when her boyfriend's not around. Ok, so I see some logic in acting different towards me when she's with the Bf, but this is just over the top. It's like I'm invisible. seriously.I was walking along the street today, and she was coming at me with her boyfriend and some other guy was infront. And it's a narrow pavement and I have no balance. so I accidentally slam into the sturdy front guy, he doesn't even feel it apparently and I bounce off his side, nearly stagger into her, I'm like a 1cm away from knocking her over, I say sorry, she doesn't even look up. There is absolutley no way she didn't see me, and she totally snubs me. Which makes no sense because if she was alone, she would have said hi or smiled at the very least. Thats the second time I've nearly collided into her and her boyfriend without the slightest acknowlegement. it was wierd the first time, even when she barely spoke to me, but now, i can't understand why.Why is she like that? it's not like I'm asking for a kiss on the cheek but a hello or just a simple nod would be nice enough. Is it because her boyfriend would ask who i was and think we're more than just friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, Faraday +, writes (5 January 2010):
 For goodness' sake, talk to her about it!
This is obviously not a passing thing for you; it's eating you up inside and you need to comminicate this to her. If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, at least you will know where you stand.
If she does, then go for it!
Her ignoring you, as you rightly say, is her way of camouflaging her feelings in front of her b/f, but overdone to the extent that anyone with a brain cell would be suspicious anyway, aas "laayyla" suggested.
Try to sort things out with her; you will always wonder what might have been, if you don't.........
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reader, laayyla  +, writes (5 January 2010):
hey,
i think this chick likes you but feels guilty because she has a boyfriend. she probably feels like everyone can see what she feels inside when you're around, she feels ashamed.
so she does everything she can to hide it... which actually makes her more obvious.
either way, not worth it, this one. she's tied up.
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