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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

I'm tired of feeling like he doesn't want to be with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. We are both in high school as of now and we have always planned to finish off together and then continue to be in this relationship for the rest of our lives. We constantly talk about ...

Had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is sara and im 22 I have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that w...

How can I keep my anger under control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for five years we have a child together. I cannot hold it together any more, I get so angry with her and we put each other down all day every day. When I get mad I punch walls and break things, I know I won't ...

My husband said he doesn't love me any more after twenty-two years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My husband said he doesn't love me any more after twenty-two years together, he is in the military and recently was deployed to Honduras and met a twenty-seven year old virgin and came home and asked for a divorce to be with her, she has no ...

I don't know how to cope with this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I thought I'd like to update you on my husband and dad situation: (original situation - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-spends-far-too-much-time-with.html) I don't believe they went for 6 weeks, as I know that what people say and...

Will my ex ever realize what he has done to the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - was with my partner for many years and suffered verbal, emotional and physical abuse. all our children are all grown up now and have nothing to do with their father, ive recently divorced him and have left the area where i lived with him and now he ...

Is my mum cheating? And my mum's boyfriend is a transvestite! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My mum has a boyfriend, who she has been with for about 4 years now. But, for about a year I have noticed that she has been on dating sites. Sometimes I'd go on the computer and see that she has the website up, and the chats so I can see what she's ...

What's wrong? I miss our sex life so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i have two kids,a four yr old and a 7 month old child. my boyfriend never wanted to have sex as soon as i got pregnant cause he said it isn't right for the baby and i agreed.Now (7 months after my baby is born) we still dont have sex as he says its ...

Running out of ideas of how to help my overweight brother before he ends up in hospital.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi,i really need some help here urgently. My younger brother who is 21 is overweight-he weighs just over 18 stone and is about 5ft 10. He is quite shy, never had a girlfriend and doesn’t have many friends he just watches TV and plays on his play...

My dad won't let me be an auto mechanic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - Im really into cars (and sports) and I think might be a auto mechanic when I finish high school but my dad and most of my family (mainly guys) thinks its not "lady like" (thats a nice way to put it). My dad won't let me a auto mechanic course at my ...

How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they ...

Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thin...

Why is my half sister so bitchy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I was shunted all over the place as a child as my mother abandoned me and left me with my father. As a result I experienced abuse by my step-mother and others (physical and emotional). I am now 45 and all my life my half sisters on my dad's side...

A way to navigate this problem with dignity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm hoping you can help me with this dilemma. Let's just say I'm quite handy with the computer and media-related arts. More specifically, I'm very good with photoshop and image manipulation over the years, as it ended up bein...