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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

I'm a 17 year old girl and he's 21... Is that too much of an age gap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - So there is this guy that I've known for a few years, and my mom and everyone on her side of the family seems to like him, so you can call him a famiyl friend, if you will. I feel that there is something between us, but I'm nervous to go on because ...

I told my parents I'm bisexual but it didn't go down too well.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm 17 and I have a major problem. I am bisexual and I am in a long distance relationship. She lives 2 hours away from me. However a few days ago I came out to my parents and it didn't go well... I also told them about my girlfriend umm... ...

My cousin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Hello I have this cousin and I love her and before you say anything don't say anything because we're family ok? Anyways we don't see each other that much but when we do we talk a lot and I want to have my first time with her (and don't say I'm too ...

Am I just barking up the wrong tree (kind of wishful thinking) or do you think there is possibly something there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I have a real dilemma! I have a love interest, we are not in a relationship but when we are together we act like a couple and get very close and personal. The thing is her Aunt is also my Aunt through marriage, so although we are not cousins, ...

I think my dad has a problem with alcohol. I can't take much more and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I think my dad has a problem with alcohol. Ever since I was a teenager (when i first really took any notice) he's been drinking almost every night. Some nights its only one or two drinks, but others (especially weekends) its much, much more. He ...

Become a doctor? Or a pharmacist?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Dear madam, i'm writing to ask for your help because i'm in a dilemma. i'm an algerian teenager of 16;i'm a pupil in second high scool year, i'll take my baccalauriat exam as i said ,i find my self in a dilemma and i have ...

Divorced parents and dad sort of insinuated I'd have to choose?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My parents split up about 4 years ago but only managed to settle their divorce last summer because there was so much argument and hatred over how money would be split (they ended up going to court over it and have ever since accused each other of ...

7 year old daughter touched by 9 year old..what to do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My 7 year old daughter has recently informed me of a 9 year old boy that has touched her privates on different occasions. She stated to me she thought it tickled and even liked it. Now she does it to herself. I thanked her for telling me and t...

I need to come out to my parents before my GF's stepmom outs me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I need some major help. On Friday my girlfriend and I will celebrate our one month anniversary. My parents have no clue I'm dating a girl or that I'm bisexual. My girlfriend's stepmom is a pain and treats her horribly. She punishes my gf con...

My mother in-law is driving me batty!

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20 January 2009 (F) - My mother in-law is driving me batty! I love her to pieces... truthfully more than my own mom (long story). However every time my husband (her son) does ANYthing she disagrees with she blames me! He had to come back from Collage 'cause he was ...

Why am I so low down on his list of priorities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is travelling Europe at the moment with his best friend for 7 months, he has been gone 2 months now. At first he was keeping in touch frequently, but now I have not heard for 3 weeks. I know his dad has heard from him a few days ago, ...

What can I do to protect my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (?) - I wrote to you about my sister before. I saw my sister's (she's 14 and her bf is 17 my age) boyfriend hit her. It all started when he pressured her for sex. She told me about it and I just said break up with him she did it like a week later. Then ...

My dad and the widow.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Dear cupid.org I am a 17 year old south asian, my dad is 61 and my mom is 47 years... of late my mom befriended a widow, she may about the same age as my mom.... she is quite attractive for her age.. my mom helped her get a job. Over a period o...

Funeral fears!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

20 January 2009 (?) - My girlfriend wants me to go to her dad's funeral (he was 42) with her. Don't wrong me I want to support but I can't handle the whole death thing. I can't even go a funeral home without feeling dizzy I'm worried if I tell her no she'll get even more ...

My wife & mother are constantly fighting! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

20 January 2009 (?) - my mother and wife keep arguing. my wife and i are 21 and my mom is 47 and i think they are both to old to be fighting the way that they do. they scream and yell at each other all the time. sometimes my mother brings my wife to tears when they ...

Survey about cousins

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - hi i am currently doing a survey on cousin couples ie (couples that are in love) can you get back to me and let me no if 1)you are in a relationship with your cousin 2) if you have been in a relationship with your cousin 3)if you have had children ...

Family moving again and I am settled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 14, moved to 8 countries and my dad works away, so we always end up moving to where hes at, and recently after living in the uk for 6 months my mum has made plans to move somewhere else, another country, another language, another waste of my ...