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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My sister likes my ex, but I still have feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if my sister likes my ex boyfriend and he likes her but I still have feelings for him?...

My relationship with my brother in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...

There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on ...

My mom told me two different stories about my parentage, I am having trouble accepting what she says is the truth, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - When I was younger my mom told me that she had me with her ex boyfriend who had since left her. But when I turned 18 my mom said "Now that you're an adult, I need to tell you the truth." Turns out the real reason I exist is cause my mom got drunk ...

Hope I can get an honest answer here!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ...

My husband of 8 years cheated before we got married and NOW he tells me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My husband of 8 years just told me about having sex with another girl about 2 years before we got married. I was immediately tooken back when he told me this last night. I mean, why now? Why didn't he tell me then? I tell you why, because I would've ...

Doctor Troubles

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - For the last 3 weeks ish I have been feeling so depressed and my mum booked me an appointment for the doctors tomorrow but she can't come with me and I'm scared that the doctor will think I am overreacting because I'm on my own and not take it ...

These rides to work are really pissing me off!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...

My gran's death has triggered off fears of dying... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello. My gran passed away about a fortnight ago, coming up 3 weeks and I'm finding it really hard. She was only 65, but she had smoked all her life and in the end it was that which killed her. She knew she was dying right up until the end and I ...

After my divorce, how can I keep close bonds with my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - My wife of 14 years left me for another man, the divorce was final 8/28/08. She left on 5/2/07 and took our 12 year old son, as I expected. Since then my relationship with my son has deteriorated to the point that we haven't talked in over two ...

Is there anything else I can try as in my state with anorexia I am unlikely to last longer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old, I have an ok life with a boyfriend who suffers from depression and sometimes lashes out due to alcohol and drug problems. I missed out on my teenage years due to being thrown out by my mum who left the country when I was 15 I lived ...

I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I want to leave my husband! I can't live like this any more and I told him today. He didn't really care that I was leaving but said I'm not taking the kids they're both 6. I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give ...

I'm seeing a guy that is 5 years older than I am and I'm scared to tell my parents about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - i dont know what to do......im seeing a guy who is five years older than me and i am scared to let my parents know....

I'm 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old. My family thinks he is too old for me. Do I follow my heart ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi I really need help in deciding whether i should follow my heart or my mind. Im 20 years old and am in love with a guy who is 40 years old.when we are together nothing matters and its like the time stops.we both understand eachother, care ...

He cheated while I was at my brother's funeral and left me for the girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend of 5 years, we were so great together! We have two kids! My brother died and so I had to fly to florida to get to his funeral and my neighbor called me while I was there tolled me that my boyfriend had a girl at my house and she ...

Am I making the right decision to keep my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My Mum has always been my one and only source of unconditional love and support and the day she suddenly died was the most devastating of my life. I'm 26 and feel like I had the most important person in my life who I shared this unbelievable bond ...

I'm almost certain I'm straight, except for this. Can you help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Yeah, I know you're all bored to death of these "I fancy my teacher" questions, and I can't claim that mine is different or extraordinary, but these feelings are messing up my life. I had this (female) english teacher last year. I started of hatin...

My step brother's ex and I like each other, is this OK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Well where to start, I have fell in love with my stepbrother's Ex-girlfriend that he does have a kid with. At first we was just friends and as time had gone on we both became each sounding board. One day we started talking about our feeling abou...

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

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29 October 2008 (F) - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. ...

Do I have any right to tuck what happened with his brother away forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy that I fell in love with for about a year. He has kids I have kids. We were pretty involved. Life happened and our path ended. His life needed him in one way and my life took me another. We still talk from time to time, less ...

My brother has so much porn on his PC I was shocked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hello, so I've just had the shock of my life, this is how it starts I'm 14 and my computer for some reason today started playing up saying stuff about antivirus and doing weird stuff, so i knew it needed to be fixed, i'm really good with compute...

Just out of an abusive relationship, but still love my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hey, my partner and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 2. We have a 10 month old baby son and things have been tough over the past few months due to money problems etc. He has recently come home after training in London for 12 ...

I told my girl cousin that I am in love with her...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I told my girl cousin that i am in love with her...and now i regret it. Let me tell a few things about myself: I am an 18 year old boy and i am love with my 19 year old cousin. This might be a long and confusing story, so i will apprecia...

My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant ...

Unhappy in my marriage: I feel I shouldn't give in to sex if he disrespectful, even abusive in return. Any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 3 years, before that we dated for 4. I was raised in a good CHristian home and in a good church and I was always taught about the importance of abstinence and saving yourself for marriage. About 2 or 3 years ...

Daughter kicked out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband kicked out our 17 year old daughter for dating a 25 year for the last 6 months. This was his decision. I have 4 other kids, he says it is her or him, either he will leave or she can come back. What should I do? ...

I slept with someone I consider my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Well what happened was me and some of my friends were hanging out and the plan was for the night that we all were supposed to get laid.... me and my friend and my brother and his friend... it was going to be my friend and brother (he's not really my ...

I want to leave my husband but I can't bring myself to do it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 3 kids. I want to leave him but I can't bring myself to do it. We constantly fight, he curses me and even calls our kids names, I hate him for how he acts. I've asked him to go to counseling ...

I'm growing increasingly resentful about my boyfriend's daughter!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - When me and my boyfriend met his baby was 2 months old but because things had turned ugly with the ex he had no contact with his daughter and had only ever seen her twice. One night he broke down to me telling me he cried everynight over it and he ...

I'm still mourning my lost love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'd fallen in love with my cousin since I was 14 years old. I thought that the feeling was just out of curiosity but I still have the same feeling towards him even until now. I thought that this feeling for him will just vanished es...

I have a second cousin and I really like him more than a cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have a cousin. Well he isn't my blood cousin. His mom is married to my cousin. So I didn't know what to consider him. I just say he is cuz I've known him since we were kids. Until a few months ago tho we have become really close. We talk a lot and ...

I don't know if my wife and I will ever have sexual relations again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Well,Cupid, I doubt that even your strongest arrow can solve this problem. Oh. I hear the reply. "Whatever could be wrong?" It's kind of straight forward. The usual, man meets woman, woman and man marry, woman all the sudden doesn't want to ...

My mum or my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have the worst situation in life, my mum and my girlfriend dont get on, I love them both a lot and I feel I have to choose but I dont want to... I need them both in my life and they both need me for emotional support but i dont know what to do...

We're dating but I feel like the last one on her list of people she wants to be with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Lately we've had problems with getting in fights over the stupidest things, we have been dating for 8 months and I know in my heart that I love her with all of my heart and she says so to but, either she's not really good at showing it or ...

Is he just being friendly and just flirting? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I was in a controlling relationship and recently got out of it and moved back home with my family. I have met up with an old guy friend a few times this week. We always hang out in groups but I always notice that his attention is always on me. No ...

Why is he still looking? Is he trying to find somethng better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 43, I've been dating a man for a little over 2 months now. He says he's not ready for a commitment right now and that's ok, we've only been dating for a little while. Yet, his brother, mother and most of his other family know me as his ...

I'm HIV positive and I'm only 16!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 11 I was always on the pill but never used condoms I recently found out that I have HIV and I don't know what to say to my mum, she will kill me! I thought I was pregnant but the results came back as that ...

I need to find myself first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Here is a little background I have been married for 12 years year, have two children 5 and 12.. Have not been happy for sometime, husband is extremely verbally abusive to me and the kids and has basically ruined my self confidence. I h...

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his ...

How can I make my dad see sense?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have posted different questions on here over the last few weeks, about my gran being diagnosed with cancer and how do I cope. well next thing.. Today her house got put on the market.. Now I am very angry about this, she is only just dead 2 weeks ...

Why should I suffer like this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - with reference to my previous question "I'm attracted to a man who is as old as my dad" tagged "boss". I REALLY NEED HELP. It all went wrong, I have told him " I admit I like you and that you are making it hard on me cos I have started th...

Should I believe him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he ...

I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Heyy xx Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible. a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on. Bt now his bro contacted me an...

Do I tell my parents exactly where this sleepover is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I am invited to a sleepover tomorrow with 2 boys and 2 girls. I know them all well and we are all just FRIENDS. Nothing more and just want a good night in watching films and eating stuff. However, I don't know whether to tell my parents I am ...

How do I tell my parents I'm in love with a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - im bi curious. im in love with this girl. we are dating secretly and we also have boyfriends. i dont know how to tell my parents cuz every time i tell them they dont believe me but they dont see how i am with her! they think im boy crazy but im in ...

How do I leave him without hurting my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have two sons and I am tired of their father cheating on me with other women and denying it. How can I leave this man that I love and who is the father of my two children without hurting my children? ...

My cousin's boyfriend came onto me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - i was at a birthday party for my cousin. and my cousin and her boyfriend and their daughter were there with my aunt and uncle. well my cousin's boyfriend and are good friends. well at the party we decided to go hang outside together and talk about ...

Step love

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26 October 2008 (F) - After reading around the site, and from a personal viewpoint, i have seen a fair number of questions about relationships with step-siblings. Many of you may think it sounds ridiculous but attraction cannot be helped when you have just met some...

Baby mama problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend in August 2006, we dated and then broke up. He has a total of 4 kids. 3 of them with his ex wife and 1 with another woman. I have met all the kids. Well we recently got back together in June 2008 and now BOTH women have told him ...

I want to introduce him to my family cause I love him but he's black and I know how my family can be...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - So, I'm Pacific Islander and my boyfriend is black. I would never have been attracted or gotten real close to a black guy because of the "typical" negative characteristics that is placed upon them, but my boyfriend isn't even like that. He is even ...