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36-40,
*shley122804
writes:I had a boyfriend of 5 years, we were so great together! We have two kids! My brother died and so I had to fly to florida to get to his funeral and my neighbor called me while I was there tolled me that my boyfriend had a girl at my house and she was staying there. I came back from florida he was gone his father was watching my kids. my oldest son was sleeping and the next day when he woke up the first thing out of his mouth was "where's the girl" i said what girl he said "the girl that was sleeping in your bed, the girl that was kissing daddy" it breaks my heart, another friend called me the other day because they walked into her work together, he now wants nothing to do with our kids, i'm so torn apart of all the ways to break up why like this?a part of me wants him back, but I can't because i'll never forgive or forget that? do you think he'll come around and try to get back with me? Do you think he misses me like i do, and maybe he's not talking to me bacouse he's ashamed or something please help i'm so lost this only happened a week and a half ago, i don't think i did anything wrong, i used to cook him brakfast lunch and dinner clean the house take care of the kids i thought i was a good girlfriend I tried so hard was i just not good enough? not to mention I am going through alot right now with my brother dieing and I needed him the most.
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reader, sally boo +, writes (29 October 2008):
To be blunt with you....he is a complete and utter disgrace!there are many words for this type of man...which shouldn't be expressed on here.there really is no excuse for his actions......he has hurt you deeply at a time when you need him the most and he really doesnt deserve you.you seem like a honest, hardworking woman and you are going through a hell of a lot at the minute. dont add the worries of why your boyfriend did this because it will only bring you down further.dont think to much about whether it was your fault...because believe me...it really doesnt seem like it is.....just try not to think this over too much....i know its hard (of course its going to be after a five year relationship) but try and forget about him...concentrate on grieving for your brother and rely on the help of your children and the rest of your family and friends to help you get through this.and to be honest with you...he doesnt deserve to have anything to do with your children at the minute...yes eventually you'll both have to come to terms with whats happeed between you and sort something out for your childrens sake but it doesnt have to be anytime soon...like i said just try and concentrate on grieving for now...you dont need any added stress on top of that.i'd just like to give my sincere sympathy for the loss of your brother.and i hope this has helped in some way.xx
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