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I slept with someone I consider my best friend.

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Question - (28 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well what happened was me and some of my friends were hanging out and the plan was for the night that we all were supposed to get laid.... me and my friend and my brother and his friend... it was going to be my friend and brother (he's not really my brother I just clame him) and me and my brother's friend (and we like each other)....so were just talking and usually me and my brother's friend are really talkitive cause we're really good friends and we we're really shy around each other. My friend and brother were not shy at all.... My friend suggested that we take a walk and talk so we did and left those two to do their thing.

We started talking for about 30 minutes and he kissed me and it went from there. After everyone was done doing their thing my brother and his friend left and I gave his friend a hickey and it was huge! He went to homecoming the next night and some of our other friends noticed it.... and my brother said my name and my other friends put my name and hickey together and he asked me about it and I told him the truth... and my brother called and told me that his friend was pissed at me and blaming me for telling our other friend about it. When actually I didn't, I told him that I wasn't going to deny it and our friend called and chewed him and his friend out for blaming me.

They called me a couple nights ago like nothing was wrong and he told me to call him later on that night so I did and he didn't anwser so I tried calling him tonight and he still didn't answer so I don't know what to do.... how do I get his friend's trust back?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2008):

This is very confusing. So you slept with a boy and the other boy who liked you is jealous?

I think you are just going to have to continue on and let things calm down.

I wouldn't worry too much, the jealous boy might even be your real friend now rather than just wanting to get into your pants.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008):

Just be yourself and take a step back from this circle of craziness for awhile to figure out who you are.

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