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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I'm having a hard time with my jealousy over my boyfriend and it has caused a huge fight between us and he is really mad and so am I because I feel he does not understand where I'm coming from and insists that it has to do with my previous relationship.I'm really jealous at the fact that he has only women on his facebook and no males at all. I have told him that I am uncomfortable with that and all he did was point things back at me, that I had males on my previous facebook too. He had almost 700 and something women but has deleted a lot and now has 300 and something. He did give me his password. But still it makes me mad as hell... What do I do? I explained to him that it has nothing to do with previous experiences but just because I'm afraid to lose him and that is the truth!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): Yes 300 and some odd woman only!!
Hmmm I have thought about the whole collector thing.. It did cross my mind.. Well this is the only thing that annoys the crap out of me about him.. Nothing else. We have an awesome relationship..
I did think about leaving it and because I have his password then I can see if anything major happens.. I just hate the fact that there's women with these sexy photos etc.. Its makes me soo mad!!!
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 January 2014):
Let's switch things around, and let me ask you this...Why would you have 300 men on your facebook, and no women?
No need to get mad or jealous...but answer that question for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2014): You have his password and he deleted almost 400 women. He's is an adult and has a right to have whomever he wants on his Facebook wall. Like it or not. At least he has compromised.
Keeping so many pictures of women means he's a certified flirt. He's not going to get rid of all of them. He likes to look like a stud by showing a bunch of pretty faces he has collected. That's all it really is, a collection. If he was trying to keep up with that many women, you'd never see him. He'd be exhausted.
Wait until you find evidence that he's trying to keep company with other girls. Otherwise he's just a collector of pretty faces and it's all for show. Go collect a bunch of pictures of cute guys, if it makes you feel better.
If you're the jealous type, you picked the wrong guy.
Dump him, and go find somebody else.
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