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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the uglie...

He's sorry how he ended it with me... why is he contacting me? He chose this not me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and together with him 13. We have 3 kids together. We have both been unfaithful in the marriage but seem to stay together for the kids I think. He says he truly loves me but people who love each other don't ...

I do not desire my husband like I desire this other man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I am married and fell in love with a married man. I started the process to end my marriage. I was not miserable in my marriage just bored and my husband and I have very little in common and we do not see each other much because we have been wor...

My husband started an emotional affair with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - My husband of over 20 years became very distant and i asked him what was wrong. He woulnt answer and i provoked him to tell me tat he wasn't sure that he wanted to be with me anymore. He said that something died. The truth came out some weeks later ...

Do I tell my b/f I slept with my ex at the beginning of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a guy a few months back and I thought he was lovely but it was nothing serious. At the time I was still really good mates with my ex and a few times he came round and it felt like we were still together, we ended up having sex and ...

I love my ex he only wants to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - i went out with my boyfriend that now is my ex boyfriend and we had 9 months of going out. In our 9 months we had fights. i would get jealous. i didn't like him talking to his friends that are girls. i would get mad easily. he made a joke about me...

He lied, he cheated, now I wonder if he'll ever contact me again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I was talking to a guy on eharmony for 2 months over a long distance. We spoke every day for 1-2 hours, sent emails and cautiously acknowledged that there is a lot of potential for long term. He came to visit me for three days and had a fantastic ...

I hurt myself because of him, and I desperatly need advice!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have argued for 2 days straight, i have came off my anti depressants because of him, i drank alot last night and dont remember much, i woke up this morning my leg covered in blood. i had tried to carve something in me leg, i dont ...

I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We mee...

In love with a married PASTOR!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I have a difficult situation, I am a 36 year old woman that has been in a relationship for 8 years, we live together. Over the years I have lost interest in him b/c he has a medical problem that is preventing us from having an intimate relationship. ...

I got dumped and she continued to mess with my head while she was sleeping with someone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - So me and my gf of two years broke up in november, before then we lived togethor for a year then in Aug. I had to move away for grad school so it became a long distance relationship and it was going okay. Until I found out she was talking to her ex ...

He never loved me and only using me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I am married but had an intense soul connection with someone three years ago. My relationship with my husband is stagnant and he is never available for me, thus, my souls thirst for emotional and spiritual attention and connection. I used to ...

Did I do the right thing? I gave up being the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - HI.. well were do i start, about a year ago i met this guy we kinda hit it of but just as friends over the phone he stoped by once we talked for about 20 min and that was it he had a girlfriend and i respected that i didnt even see him like that ...

Trust him... or trust him not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Hey. Well, Story goes my current boyfriend and I have been dating for a real long time and I still don't trust him. He cheated on me once. He was a real player. But that was years ago. A few years later we got back together. (now dating for a yea...