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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Should I tell my partner I cheated a year ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both in our mid-late twenties. He put me in a very vulnerable position early in relationship which I forgave him for and we worked through it. Last year I made a stupid mistake and cheated on him. I ...

My husband is cheating--do you think it will work out with him and the other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i need help i've been married since may 2008, but we have been together for 5 1/2 years we have a daughter together who is 2yrs almost 3. My husband has been cheating on me for the past 5 months, well the girl hes with is 21yrs and he is 34yrs. ...

I don't trust my army guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept acussig him of cheating we then didnt talk for about a year and then he contacted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would ...

He accuses me of cheating, now I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - We’ve been together for 3months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him...saying i am not giving him sex ...

Attracted to cheating spouse's friend after trying to reconcile..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My husband has cheated on me three times, the first two were one night stands, this second time he actually moved out and had a "relationship" with the woman he started cheating with. Our marriage was very dysfunctional for years, I take re...

It's almost too much now to keep everything straight at work, home, and even with her. Any advice would be helpful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I've been in this relationship with a single woman for 6 months, I'm unhapply married 30 years. It's getting harder with her when I leave to go home. She keeps saying she wants me to stay, that really makes me mad. Doesn't she realize I that it's ...

How do I rebuild trust in my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - How do I rebuild trust in my partner? He was unfaithful to me in the early stages of the relationship with his ex, I was devastated when I found out but thought the relationship was worth saving and so we worked through this. In a previous ...

Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great ti...

Cheating fool!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I did something terrible, now it is hurting my feelings. I took my hubby to the airport as he was going back to work. On my way home I pretended to be some other girl and texted him, to my surprise in that short time he promised to come visit and ...

Married & cheating with a co-worker

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) - I cheated on my wife with a co worker (we made out once). I completely regret and I wish didn't. My wife always has been faithful towards me. She has no I idea what I have done. Should I tell her? The co worker keeps flirting with me and I can't ...

Boyfriend's new friend is getting too close for my liking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 4 years and he cheated on me once. I forgave him and tried to move past it because he said that it would never happen again and it hasn't in two years. But all of a sudden there is a new girl that expressed an interest...

I don't want to be with my partner anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 4 years we have a 15 month old child together. I started a new job recentley and met a guy on my there we were totally friends, but then on a group night out we ended up kissing and i ended up staying at his and having ...