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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

My ex cheated with my best friend and now wants me back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with Eric for almost half a year. After we broke up i found out that he went out with my best friend and they chose to keep this from me until i found out they went out for about a month or two. He keeps saying how he really ...

My wife won't admit she is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - Happy New Year to everyone!!! 2008 was not a particularly good year for me, I found out my wife cheated and continues on ... some background for all of you: - We have been married for 8 years (my second, her first) - I am 10 years older than she, ...

How can I forgive myself? I cannot believe it was me who lied and cheated...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy only for a month. I really liked him. He was only looking for a relationship to get married. He was the only guy I respected and wanted to get married too though I have only known him for a very short period ...

We're both married to others, but can he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - can a married man ever love another woman. i am a married woman who still lives with her husband and kids but have told my husband ive been seeing someone else. i met this other man through a work conference. hes married for 16 yrs me 9yrs. at ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating with my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - My Bf thinks I'm cheating, with my COUSIN but he doesn't know he's my cousin. Ok yesterday I went with my guy cousin to the atm, he's never met the cousin coz he's just visiting, well as we leave the atm we see him coming in a car, but my cousin ...

Would you forgive me and take me back???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy for three years. He was wonderful to me and I really loved him. He found out that had been online messaging his sis bf.The messages were a bit suggestive but I was not in my right mind because I was under the influence. We ...

Can we ever just be friends again, after having one night of sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

12 January 2009 (?) - I am in a serious LDR, we plan to get together soon. Recently, I met a really nice guy online (not a dating site) We began "chatting" almost daily. We had very mind-stimulating conversations and it was very enjoyable. One night I had too much...

He left me to go back to his wife and kids! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - i am a married woman involved with a married/seperated man for 8 months. he moved out of his wife/kids house after 2 months of us being involved. things moved very quickly and before i knew it he was telling me he loved me and wanted me to move in ...

I know he has a g/f but we are having an affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I feel terrible, I have started what seems to be an affair type thing with someone I know has a girlfriend. I am single and we started as friends/work collegues - but now things have progressed from flirting to kissing and now more intimate, we ...