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writes: in the beginning my boyfriend left for for another girl and later on i took him back then he felt on a girls breast and butt, the last week he slept with his ex and told me. now he wants me take him back and i did. will he cheat on me again?
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reader, ithurtstomuch  +, writes (2 March 2008):
my boyfriend of nine months cheated on me when we first got together. after 3 weeks i took him back. then he broke up with me like 8 months later because i was too controlling, and jealous. after 3 days we got back together. then i was told that he slept with some during those three days. then this past week he broke up with me again because of those same reasons. i found out yesturday that he was sleeping with a friend of mine. probably still is. this whole time he made me believe it was all me. i'm hurt and betrayed, and i want to take him back. But i know i can't because of the lack of repect, love, and pride. my point is, do you always want to feel bad about yourself? do you always want to feel like a doormat. And most important do you want him going around to all his friends and say he can do whatever he wants and you will take him back. I know it will hurt, and the temptation will always be there to want to feel happy again. But is it worth it if you don't feel good about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): sorry to say this but, yes he probably will cheat again, and keep cheating. once its been done once and got away with its so easy t keep doing it. and 3 times in your short relationship is really taking the p**s excuse my french! you can do better. there are plenty of men who will respect you enough to not cheat at all. x
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 January 2006):
 He hasnt got a good track record,has he? This fella is a player.....any girl...any time...any place...anywhere.You deserve better.Drop the loser!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): Yes he will. You are an easy mark for him. He has had his 3 strikes so he should be out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006): Do you trust him? It sounds like a no from your question.
Whilst sometimes I do believe there are exceptions to "once a cheat, always a cheat", generally the saying is acurate.
Part of the reason that it is acurate is that once the cheating has occured, so much respect, trust and intimacy is lost and sometimes cannot be regained.
If you can not regain that trust and respect, you need to move on and find someone who be faithful to you and respect you.
You don't want to live your life being with someone you don't trust and looking over your shoulder, wondering when he will cheat again.
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