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One minute we're friends, and the next we're having an affair! I'm so confused... Does he like me or not?

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Question - (16 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi,

I'm extremly confused I meet a guy and he has a girlfriend, we have started seeing each other as friends although we have slept together a few times but are not anymore, just hanging out... Don't understand what is going through his head one minute where mates then having an affair , I mean its not like i'm chasing him he calls me and seems happy to hang out... What is up with this guy does he like me or not. i know what im doing is wrong but am completley infactuated with him...

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A female reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (16 January 2006):

purrfectionist84 agony auntWho cares if he likes you or not, when he clearly has no respect for you! You are his woman-on-the-side, and that's all you'll ever be. He is using you for sex when he can't get it with his girlfriend.

You must end this affair immediately. It isn't right to be having sex with a guy who is in a relationship with someone else. He doesn't even care for you. Have some self-respect, and find yourself someone who isn't a total loser.

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A female reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (16 January 2006):

MilanaNYC21 agony auntThe problem with this guy is that he found a vulnerable female who he can take advantage of. Now the problem with you is, that you allow it to happen. Life is far too precious for you to waste your time and BODY on someone who does not even want an exclusive relationship with you. Plus think of the other female he is with. I am sure you would not want another female being intimate with your man behind your back.

Buy yourself a nice outfit, get your hair done and go out and find yourself a NICE GUY!

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