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My man and I have been together for just over 2 years. For over a year and a half, he had another girl on the side and didn't bother to tell me!

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Question - (19 January 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have been with a man for just over 2 years. 1 year into the relationship he moved in with me and my children. He has asked me to marry him. I know find out he has had another girl for over a year and a half of our relationship. I found out, he lied at first, now says he is sorry and wants this to work. I want this to work but do i really know him and will he do it again? How do i feel better about myself?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006):

You won't feel better about your self if you stay with him I know this is tough but, leaving him is probaly best there's no more trust he broke it and sorry but that goes above and beyond cheating that's just so wrong usually if it was a one night stand they don't ever talk or see them again not having a relationship with someone when he was already in one WoW! Any way of course he is gonna say he's sorry but, he's only sorry he got caught he had more than enuff time to know what he was doing was wrong he just kept it going cause he could now he got caught and the only thing he can say is sorry He's not worth it you deserve much better than that if I were you I would pack his bags and send him on his merry way Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006):

leave him, that will make all the hurt go away because his the one that caused it in the first place, yea it will take ages to feel good about yourself but its better then being in a relationship where your always going to feel inscure and im doubting you will ever trust this guy ever again, he sounds like a bad person who only thinks of himself so why waste your time, he knew what he was doing was wrong and he kept it going for over 1 year, this guy has no heart and really has very little respect for you, and you deserve so much better, trust me if you leave its a good choice, i would if i was in your position.

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