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writes: I am 42 male happily married for 14 years. For the past few months I have developed strong feelings towards one of my wife's friend (she is married too). It doesnt mean that I dont love my wife any more. But my heart aches be with her friend, and want to hold her close to my heart. Its not even sexual. I just want this girl to know how much I love her. I am in great pain and dont know how to deal with this.Please can you help? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 January 2006):
 Do not say anything to this woman. You will ruin the friendship for you and your wife and put everyone in a bad situation. You will also hurt your wife. What sill she think everytime you're in the company of this other woman?
Spend more time doing nice things for your wife if you love her as you say you do.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (28 January 2006):
 This is a dilema for you as you dont know if this lady feels the same as you, you can love people in different ways, I guess by what you say that you think she is not happy that is why you want to hold her and heal her by loving her, You are confussed and torn, she has become an addiction or obsession, you need to talk to her and tell her you have developed feelings for her other than pure friendship, this needs to be done gently and sensitively and with caution as it may ruin your friendship if she does not feel the same.
You must talk with her otherwise it will consume you.
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