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writes:hey xIm in pickle.. i really want a boy in my life. I want a boyfriend. I hate all the boys in my year and want to get to know new boys a bit older. How?I have made friends with a popular girl who knows boys in higher years. Is this a good idea. What can I do? Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, travelmate37  +, writes (2 July 2009):
Do take heed of what has been said here. Boys pretty much only want one thing at that age - older may seem cooler to be around but what they expect in return may be more than you're ready to give.
If the boys at your high school suck, then try mixing with boys from another high school if possible - imported can be definately better
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): I have to disagree with Scarlot.
I can't see how an older boy around 17 would be in any way less responsible than someone around 13-15.
It depends on the individual, to be honest.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 Older boys can be trouble!! but I've always been one to say, 'age is just a number' I have always had older friends, older boyfriends, especially because I think boys my age are a tad immature.
I don't see the problem, as long as you don't fall into peer pressure, or feel like just because their older, you have to do what they want to do. Remember that you are still your own person, you make your own desicions, and never do anything you don't want to do, or something you will end up regretting later.
Enjoy yourself!!
xx
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (14 June 2009):
 I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing, since you hate all the boys in your year.
Just be careful that you becomes friends with these older boys for the right reasons: they might want something out of a relationship that you aren't prepared to offer.
But good luck anyway!
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