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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i'm a 14 year old girl and i've never had a boyfriend. So now i want my 1st boyfriend cuz i'm starting high school this fall. I'm wondering how i could get a guy to like me. I'm overwieght and i think thats a reason. I'm 5'5'' and 180 lbs. But i see "big" girls with guys all the time. So why does'nt any gutys like me. I'm one of the funniest and kindest people you'll ever meet and they know that so why do the dumb guys in my school go for the " skinny and hot" girls? ( They have sex). The boys know i won't do that. Theres one guy in my class who flirted with me. My problem is only older guys like me. Why?
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reader, holikdad +, writes (9 June 2009):
Whatever you do don't have sex with a boy to get them to like you. It doesn't work that way, they'll take what they want and move on, and they may start bad rumors about you in the process.
You're young, enjoy life, don't get caught up in the emotional roller coaster that is relationships just yet.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (9 June 2009):
 As you get older, the people around you will start to mature. Boys at this age, have only one thing on there mind usually - and thats sex.
You WILL meet someone who will be willing to look past all of that, and love you for whats on the inside and the outside. I promise you!! and I'm sure it will be worth the wait!
For now, just love yourself for who you are, and don't try to change. You sound like a great person, and whether people see it or not is there fault, while they will be trying to date skanky girls - who will probably cheat on them anyways, you will be with someone who really loves you, and who you really love!
live - laugh - love, and relax! your still young yet.
Best of luck
xx
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