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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I chose between 2 great guys? Stuck between a rock and a hard place

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age - I dated a guy for 6 mos....we'll call him Bob. Bob and I are both from military backgrounds, stable financially, both have one daughter and 2 grandkids and we're both in our 50's. I am an eternal optimist and a hopeful romantic. I am very healthy and young at heart and ... (612 words)

My ex loves me more than his girlfriend. I don't know what to say the feelings are not returned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I went out with this guy two years ago - we'd been friends for a year or so before that. I have to admit that I wasn't CRAZY about him and I'd just got out of a really long relationship so it was half for rebound but needless to say we got on really really well and ... (309 words)

How can I satisfy her needs during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am the first to admit that I'm not the best in bed, I can never seem to last long at all, with or without a condom. I'm worried that the lack of ability to satisfy my girlfriend's needs may be grating her the wrong way (tho I always make a point of finishing her after I do). ... (102 words)

Am I in the wrong for wanting to end things and move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been in a monogamous relationship with a woman and we have recently decided to become more serious. As I get to know this person more I find out things that bother me. I'm sure there are things that bother her about me but what relationship doesn't. Since we started dating ... (241 words)

Why do my online dating experiences never lead to an actual date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age - I've been using a dating site for awhile. Where I live there's really nowhere to go to meet men, unless it's a bar, which I'd rather not do, so it's the online dating. Anyway, every time I seem to find someone that seems interested, it only lasts for a short period. We talk ... (155 words)

If I hate him, can someone please help me figure out why I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing a man I like sometimes, hate sometimes who annoys me most of the time. He can be sweet but still. Now I'm shocked that I've spent seven months with him! He's the opposite of what I appreciate in a man: ungentlemanly, often conceited and assuming. I feel sometimes ... (154 words)

How do I convince my LDR ex to try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was dating someone in a long distance relationship but she called it off months ago. The fact is we really like each other so have kept in touch as friends. I have been very patient and only recently discovered the real reason she wanted to call it off. She has ha... (122 words)

He doesn't want me, yet no one else can have me...Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. So in a nutshell, I've been in love with my childhood sweetheart and now best friend for 14 years. Over these 14 years we have been drawn to each other like magnets after many failed relationships with others. I have always been very open about how I feel ... (253 words)

He cheated and I continuously gave him grief. How do I let him know that I am sorry?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys Little advice please. 7 months ago i found out my parnter had been cheating on me at the beginning of the year. i knew he was up to no good and my suspicions were confirmed when she contacted me months down the line telling me she had been seeing him for a while but ... (327 words)

I promised my friend that we would have sex tomorrow but I didn't mean it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a neighbor who wants to have sex with me. Im not attracted to him, i just think he's a good friend. Today he came over for dinner and refused to go home after that saying we should have sex first. I lied that we will do it tomorrow so he has gone hom excited, eagerly ... (101 words)

GF went on holiday without me and packed her sexy lingerie. What does this mean?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend went on holiday without me, she says for a break from everything, but she took her sexy lingerie with her. When asked why, she replied that she did not even notice, just grabbed a handful of undies and packed them. What does this mean?... (49 words)

Should I make the first move on him? ...Again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, well I'm a nearly sixteen female and the guy I like is a year and a half older than me. I began to like him about five or six months ago, and now I basically love him. Thing is, he won't talk to me even though we kissed a few weeks back under the pressure of our mutual f... (215 words)

I love my friend and want to stay friends with him despite him having a girlfriend. Why won't he open up to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - im friends with a guy and last summer we grew close as in a few kisses nothing else. hes been with his girlfriend 5 years. he says shes domineering and threatens suicide. i fell deeply in love with him but he said due to what was going on he couldnt leave her. i was gutted and ... (132 words)

I can't get over this mystery breakup.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, well, I'm trying to find the best advice on how to move on with my life or keep fighting for my true love. My ex girlfriend and I went out for 6 months and we were a decent couple, we never had big problems or any huge fights while we were together. Everythi... (425 words)

I'm reacting very badly to this breakup. I'm depressed and anxious, can't eat or sleep. How can I get back to functioning normally?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll keep it very short. Advice needed please to overcome this break up which has caused me depression. I am 34, my Boyfriend who is 29 decided after 2 years together (a year of which living together) he just doesn't love me anymore and in a week I have gone from life all gr... (264 words)

I don't believe I can satisfy my girlfriend physically. Should I leave her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Appreciate any answers. I believe I can't physically satisfy my girlfriend and as a consequence believe I should leave her. I want to leave her if as I don't want a gf I can't please and I worry that this may be a reason for her leaving me so this is me acting me first be... (86 words)

Why did my ex contact me just to tell me how happy he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I was with my ex for about 7 years, since we were young teens. He treated me very badly throughout the relationship but only subtly - he wasn't openly nasty but refused to spend time with me and even when we lived together he used to spend time alone. It was as if he cou... (356 words)

Was this 'picking someone up at a bar', or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just want to know if this is considered picking up a guy from a bar? There is a guy I have met but don't know too well. He is a friend of a friend. I have met him before, sat on the same table and had dinner. On my friend's birthday I hooked up with him. We kissed and ... (103 words)

Do I still have a chance at getting this girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl I've had my eye on at school lately. I don't know her on a personal level at all because we've never spoken to each other. However I have another female friend that does know her. I had my friend ask the girl what she thought of me looks wise based on a pho... (151 words)

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4110 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than friends! He dropped me home and ... (121 words)

Why did he suddenly end the relationship when we were so happy? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 5 months. We live 20 minutes apart and every night when I get off work I spend the night with him. We practically live together. We hardly fight, we have a great sexual relationship and he is very caring and loving. He has aske... (259 words)

Husband ignores me for days whenever we row. It's making me an emotional wreck. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Every time my husband and I row, he ignores me for days. It drives me crazy, I even say I'm sorry to mend things but he treats me as if I do not exist. He will come into a room and look at me to wait for me to respond then once I look at him back thinking he is going to make ... (151 words)

My wife thinks I'm seeing other women. How can we sort this out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all. I got a prob that I think I’m stuck with. I been married for year and half and things ain’t too pretty. My wife is thinking that I’m seeing other women and hiding things from her. I have a friend, T, that lives south of England, I’m in the North, who is having marr... (279 words)

Anyone been in a relationship with a Bf in Turkey? I'd like to help him get a Visa to visit me here. How could I help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my turkish boyfriend have been going out for just over 5 months now. I met him back in august when i was there on holiday and spent a month with him, I then went back in December to see him again for just over a week and I met his parents, and he also got me a promis... (191 words)

Am I too traditional? If a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I was wondering if a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend? Personally I wouldn't go out with an attached guy one on one even if we're just friends because I find it weird, and maybe a little disrespectful to his gf. Or am... (119 words)

I feel uncomfortable about our little argument.Was I wrong, or was he, or were we both wrong in some way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help, I might as well explain the whole story... Okay on Friday night me and my bf were texting quite late and he didn’t reply for a while so I said 'g2g night love you xxxx' and he still didn’t reply so I guessed he fell asleep which is fair enough then yesterday I... (533 words)

Are my expectations too high? What do I need to bring a great connection or real passion into our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I have been thinking that there might be a better guy out there for me than my current boyfriend but I don't know if my expectations are too high? We get on well most of the time and I do feel that I love him, but I don't feel like there is a great connection or real ... (91 words)

They stop caring after a short time. I think that I DESERVE romance! Is it too much to ask?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll start by saying this: I've never been overly obsessed with romance, like I've never chased it, if it happens then it happens. I'm 19 and I've never had anything romantic, I've never even been on a proper date, the guys I go for get comfortable with me very quickly, wh... (415 words)

Facebook and Badoo contact: He's a friend of friends. But how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I saw a guy (we can call him P) on my facebook first site and this guy isnt my friend but is a friend of my "friends" on facebook. These our common friends added me years ago on facebook and I accepted their friend request. We dont know each other and we didnt tal... (434 words)

Where do I from here? Unhappy marriage. I've fallen for a married man I met on a dating site.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 23 years , with 2 kids and have been unhappy in my marriage for over the last 15 years as my husband had a drinking problem As a result I have lived in an abusive relationship. He gave up drinking about 4 years ago and for me there was someth... (301 words)

He's denied he's doing it, but I smelt it. I love him. But I hate him using weed. Should I talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for six months, and I am very happy with him, but the fact that he smokes weed is always lingering in the back of my mind. When we first started dating, he quit in order to impress me, according to his friends, and after we were dating for a wh... (372 words)

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t manage to do that, we blamed each ... (674 words)

Can I continue as his wife? How could he preach to me about principles? When in reality he was continuing with his best friend's ex partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am 34.I have been married for a year and half. My husband cheated on me three months ago with his best friend's ex. I WAS REALLY HURT. But believing he was really sorry, I decided to forgive him and we moved on. This was the THIRD time he was cheating with the same girl. H... (421 words)

If he cares then how is it he can cheat on me and on her as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people I love this forum and I have this story with a someone and I can't understand anything at all I’m a girl and once I found a man we had sex and enjoyed each-other it was amazing. He was cool and awesome I had his phone we texted a lot added him on Facebook and... (1105 words)

My husband is harsh and emotionally abusive to me. What can I do about the fact he makes me feel worthless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends. I am disintegrating and breaking into pieces emotionally. My husband is constantly making me feel small, even in front of other people. I can’t do anything without him criticizing it harshly. He will say it so harshly I feel like crying. To him I cannot do an... (270 words)

Since I am a virgin, is this normal that I cannot face ever having sex for the first time with a woman unless she is a virgin too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like it's not right to date a woman who already has dated and had sex with another person. I can't imagine having sex with her if someone has already had intercourse with her. I'm thinking and hate imagining that i'll be somehow touching my penis with the other guy's.... (75 words)

Am I over-reacting? My friends all went to the movies without me, even though I thought we'd agreed to the next day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - hello people, i need a friendship advice.. just today morning me and my 3 other friends decided to catch a movie but we couldnt due to unavailibity of the show.. they all asked about the next show. but i had some work and i told them we will watch it tommorow, they all a... (101 words)

He abused me for years. Then he found a new Gf. Now he is ill he wants me back. What do I say? I said "no" but he's not listening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in love with this guy in my early teens and he was 16 at the time. We were together for many years had two kids and then he winds up being over protective very mentally, verbally,physically abusive toward me. The abuse started after I had sex with him. He didn't want me t... (169 words)

What should I be telling my Gf? I want her to agree to sex with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! My girl friend and i have been together for almost two years now but i never slept with her although she shows certain signs of wanting that but she just can't tell me in words, and i too feel the same. Help guys, what should i tell her so that she may agree dire... (65 words)

Why does he only phone me from work? Why doesn't he answer when I call him? Could he be playing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay PLEASE HELP. So I am 19. Keep in mind I have always had a very old soul and countless people have told me this. I am not your average teenager I should probably be older I act like it... Anyways. I have always liked older guys. Recently, I met a guy at work and he is ... (253 words)

I've had this major Crush on a boy since October. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4121 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell for this boy back in october and ever since then things have been different. I always think about him. When we're hangin out my day turns into abosolutely perfect. I feel just amazing spending time with him. Everything about him is perfect to me. I don't care about a... (143 words)

I had an instant attraction to her. Is it too pessimistic or too soon to start thinking that I have no chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl a few months ago at a retreat. I was instantly attracted to her. We didnt talk too much because of the activities, but we did talk a few times and notice each other. I always noticed her looking at me and vice versa. After the retreat we kept in contact. Toda... (132 words)

Do I say something about my friend's thieving girlfriend? Or say nothing? Or tell one of his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a moral dilemma. I found out that a friend of mine is dating a girl who was arrested and fired from her job for retail theft in the store she worked in back in September. I have never trusted this girl because something just wasn't right with her. She had so... (480 words)

Am I Just Going Through Baby Fever? Any thoughts ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I didn't know where else to get advice and you all always help me through everytime so I'm going to give it a whirl again. I am 20 years old going to be 21 in 3 months and I think I am going through baby fever! Everyone is having babies and I mean they a... (328 words)

Should I give serious thought to reconciling with my ex, or is it finally time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

13 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I started talking again. For some reason, it seems to be a reoccurring thing where we’ll go for awhile without talking and then, he’ll re-enter my life. Under the circumstances, however, we’ve agreed to be friends. And that’s all that it can ever be until ... (448 words)