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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being selfish? I don't know where I stand in his life just now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy in November and we got together. It was getting quite serious and we felt the same way about each other. He recently had some life-changing news (ex-girlfriend is pregnant with his baby) and he is finding it extremely difficult to deal with. He seems to have gone ... (396 words)

He said he just needed a few weeks and now he's using the same lines on her as he used on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend told me he felt lost so i told him to take some space, he told me we could still talk but just a little (we usually talk all the time nearly 24/7) he said that he didn't know if he loved me anymore and that he just needed a few weeks, he said he still wanted to be ... (140 words)

Have things changed for the better, or am I just making it all up because I'm in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be long, but please stick through because I really need some advice. I've been seeing a guy since September, but I can't tell exactly what we are. I met him last summer at work and I instantly liked him. I'm usually pretty shy around people I don't kn... (586 words)

What does he want from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - i really need advice and any help is greatly appreciated. i had a "friends with benefits" situation that lasted 8months with a guy but we both had feelings for each other. lets call him "Bulk." Bulk told me he was planning to make me his girlfriend and have me meet his mother ... (355 words)

My boyfriend is too clingy. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - What would you do if your significant other always clings on to you and wants to always touch you when you're in public places? It's slightly annoying but if I say anything he'd get upset. ... (35 words)

Guy I've been talking to has a girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months now. We phone each other almost every night. He is really funny, kind and we share similar interests. I really enjoy talking to him and he says the same for me. Everything was great until yesterday I found out that he ... (74 words)

Should I text him or not? He's newly separated from his wife and signed off sick.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - He is a work colleague who I do consider as a friend but it's only been a few months we have known each other . He has just got sick leave for three weeks. A part of me thinks it is related towards him separating with his wife. His colleague/friends who he is clos... (136 words)

Marriage has broken down. He won't talk about it, won't try to fix it but hasn't moved out of the house. The pain is overwhelming.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 yrs, a stay at home mom for 8yrs. Two months ago my husband told me he doesn't feel anything for me anymore and doesn't want to be with me. We still live together, I still cook and clean up after him. We still share the bedroom but he will sleep on... (385 words)

Is he cheating? Should I believe him, or the people who say he's cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Please aunts and uncles can you help me?? .. Here goes.. I have a profile on a popular dating site. One day goin back 2+ years I received a msg from 'M' saying he saw me driving along, and so we struck up a conversation. It was on and off chatting via this dating site. ... (281 words)

My husband is significantly older than me and has no interest in sex anymore. I'm really struggling to cope. Can anyone offer advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm sad. Very, very sad because my husband seems don't want any sex now. Yes, he is far older than me. I'm 41 and he is 67. I know some of you will criticise that age, but yes I love him so please, don't think negative about our age. He is still healthy, actually more st... (241 words)

Unexpected separation from my lover. Why is he avoiding me, and how can I get it back to how it was?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for more than two and half years. For the past few months I notice some changes in my boyfriend's attitude. I am really worried in this situation. I feel like he is avoiding me. I know that he loves me, but something holds him back from contacti... (184 words)

I'm pregnant and our sex life has dwindled. What can I do to get him keen again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My sex life has been in a lull since I've been pregnant, and particularly since I started showing. It seems whenever I want to have sex, but husband isn't that interested, but when he's usually interested, it's in the middle of the night when I'm sleeping. I miss having fiery ... (279 words)

How can I ask my BF to invite me to his house? I'm feeling left out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel so left out. My bf's brother and his gf wait with me before I get picked up after school which is nice but my bf is either really late coming out of school or doesn't get a lift at all. The thing is his brother and his gf are always together before school, break, l... (704 words)

I need advise about a guy I like! He's hard to get! Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I need some advise. I am very confused. There is this guy, which I really like. I moved to London in September and I met so many guys, but this guy I like is the only guy I have liked now in England. He is so different then the other guys, by different I mean by beha... (414 words)

Has he a soft spot for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hye! There is a guy I really like. We met at the editorial meeting (o/t university magazine). We are both a member of the student council. My point is: we do not see each other that much now (as we both have exams), but I really like him. We 've skyped, have each other... (318 words)

More than 6 years together, he's still putting off marriage and now its making me bitter and unhappy.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the length, I feel the information is necessary to get a good reply. THANKS to anyone who reads and replies! I am 24(female), my boyfriend is 33. We have been together for over 6 years and living together for just about 6 years. No major issues, no break ups, nothi... (1107 words)

Why do I keep putting all my anger over things on my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Just to set the story, I have been in a very happy relationship for 2 years, I am settled and live with my partner. My relationship with my ex was mentally abusive, and ended 3 years ago, he put me down and made me feel like nothing, he was also a serial cheater and le... (424 words)

Am I a loser for not drinking or doing drugs? Will I find a girl to date?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

16 January 2013 (?) age 30-35 - How can I be comfortable with the fact that I dont drink or do drugs. Last night, I went out with my friends to a partyhiuse and there was rndless amounts of drinks and drugs there. I never drink, so I am the sober one. I have some friends who do smoke and drink because I dont ... (172 words)

I want him to enjoy oral sex, like he did in the beginning!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I was a virgin when I met him. We didn't have sex until 9 months into our relationship. But before I lost my virginity to him, we would have oral sex and he would sometimes spend 45 minutes going down on me and he loved it and ... (360 words)

My girlfriend never replies to my messages on time and it really bugs me!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

16 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - there is something that bothers me so much about my girlfriend and is that she does not reply my messages on time, if i text her she takes even hours to text me back and if i send her a fb message she reads it and then until next day replies. at the begining i tried to ... (97 words)

How to get over someone you have to see everyday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I guess at this point I have no choice but to try and get over this man that seemingly captured my heart. My question is, how do you get over someone you have to see every day?... (40 words)

Why don't I want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I get horny and always want to masturbate but when the person I'm in a relationship with tries to start anything I don't want to! They say they just want to have that connection with me...but I can't get in the right mood. I'm young...and healthy...work out do as I should, eat ... (113 words)

How can I tell this girl who I've kissed that I think she's the one? Trouble is it's now a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi im 14 and live in one place in my state but there is this girl who I like but she lives in another place in my state. I don't know how to tell her my feelings, especially that she's the girl for me. But the major problem is that we've kissed before. I said that this is the g... (152 words)

She doesn't want to change her Facebook status to 'in a relationship'....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

16 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl for about 8 months, i've been introduced to her friends and family, in fact we spend christmas and new years together. i have pictures on my fb showing us together and she has shown me in other ways she cares about me but she doesnt change her ... (150 words)

First time seeing the college psychologist and I don't feel like I go anywhere, how can I ask for another psychiatrist without hurting her feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've never went to see a "professional" about anything before...I have slipped into depression lately after leaving my ex boyfriend and I just felt a little pathetic so I decided to make an appointment with a licensed psychologist at my college...I don't have a support ... (339 words)

My boyfriend doesn't get jealous and it seems like he doesn't care about me, do you think he doesn't see a future with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm currently in first relashionship and i feel that my boyfriend doesn't care much about me. Lately or each time he starts to talk about the future he allways excludes me, like if he somehow knows we won't last or doesnt wants to. He says stuff like: " well for our future ... (260 words)

I cant count on my boyfriend anymore, what should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Please advise me since Im very nervous because of my boyfriend's behavior..he is almost 11 years older than me, never married and lives in germany since he was 13. he left his country at the age of 13 to join her mother in the USA but couldnt and its now been more tha... (423 words)

Should I tell my religious parents that I'm bisexual now, or wait until I am older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - So 15 and bisexual. I lean more to the guys side but I can some girl do turn me on, but I problem is that I want to break the news to my parents, and knowing my mom being so religious and traditional and my dad who I barely talk to. I know that would be I guess you can say mad. ... (122 words)

I feel good but bad at he same time. I told my FWB that I'd developed feelings for him. Now he wants a break?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

16 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Oh gosh, okay, sorry if this is a little long it may just end up viewed as venting. I've been seeing this guy and I've posted about this situation a couple of months ago. Well, we continued seeing each other and it seems now that it was clearly a FWB agreemen... (672 words)

Is it a good idea to consider changing my job? I like the people I work with now. But I'm bored at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

16 January 2013 (F) age 36-40 - I don't know what I should do careerwise. My part-time work is in a nice place, but I'm not very motivated there, perhaps I'm a somewhat indolent person. Plus I must admit that I've never been one of those enthusiastic career-oriented women who wants to be successful a... (292 words)