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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does anybody know how long waxing lasts for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anybody know how long waxing lasts for? I'm seeing my boyfriend this weekend and want to get a full brazilian as i've heard waxing is far better and lasts a long time. The thing is my appointment is on Thursday this week, but then the next time i'll see him is Valentines ... (135 words)

Is there any truth to these lies and excuses from my husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - On 3 different occasions I found condoms in my husbands truck. To start with, ever since he got this truck it never left his side and after awhile I noticed he was going out of his way to make sure I couldn't go in there. He would lock it up and hide the keys and even sometimes ... (836 words)

She doesn't listen to or take any of my advice and it's really beginning to annoy me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend split up from her boyfriend of 16 months, 3 months ago. he was her first boyfriend and I've been dreading their break up for ages as I am friends with both of them! - my friend is a bit of an attention seeker and acts just to get attention from people, for example we ... (186 words)

Is he interested? Do I text him or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well on Hogmanay [mod note: New Year's Eve] I met this guy. He seemed very nice and we kissed. The conversation flowed really well but we were both drunk. He asked for my number and for a whole week he text me constantly. He then stopped texting first as much. However he ... (118 words)

Starting to feel used in this relationship -- am I blowing things out of proportion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a range of niggling issues with my boyfriend who Ive been seeing for 6 months. On the whole he is kind and loving but I have noticed that when we go out for a meal, the cinema or somewhere else I end up paying... he never offers or reaches to get his wallet We go out ... (480 words)

It seems like I'll never find a monogamous relationship -- anyone else experience this in the gay community?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

15 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello readers, I hope you can all help me understand this mess. So I'm gay and I've been going on dates with guys, but well seems like I wasn't born to have a significant other. I don't think I'm that ugly as I get compliments a lot of times. oh "you have a cute face", "you... (423 words)

Is it wrong to ignore my friend? Is she avoiding me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey dear cupids! I have an issue. Basically it's coming up to my birthday and I have organised a meal out with my close friends. I have been contacting this girl for a while now asking about whether or not she's coming and i have been waiting for people to contact me so i can ... (483 words)

Married man curious about a tranny

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for there years. I have become very curious about transsexuals and think I might want to try having sex with one. I am curious what anal sex feels like. I don't know if that makes me a bisexual?. My wife caught me looking at tranny porn and was absolutely ... (120 words)

Couldn't take his attitude any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been on and off with this pig. hes attitude is foul. he keeps standing me up and he does things i realy dont approve. hes made me suffer for so long. he pretended i was acually going to his last saturday night (saturday before the last one) and my dad offerd me a lift to ... (375 words)

Relationship with an old parent and siblings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 45 year old single male - I have an old mother (75+) who lives with me - we share a reasonable relationship most of the times but there are instances when things just get too difficult. I strongly believe my mother's ability to comprehend things are getting poorer w... (493 words)

I'm pregnant and want to keep the baby but I have some doubts and my BF wants me to have an abortion. Any advise?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 8 Weeks pregnant but I am only 20 years old. I have no clue whether or not I am going to keep this baby. I know that there are plenty of younger mothers these days, but I never intended in being one of them. When I was younger I always criticized young mothers, because ... (265 words)

I like a certain musician and want to message him via his bands Facebook page. What questions should I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this isn't much of a problem, but i'd appreciate your help. I like a member of a band. The band that he was in that I am a fan of were famous. He is in another band now that isn't famous (well, they haven't released albums and singles). He is from the UK, like I am. I ... (253 words)

After the breakup, I want my boyfriend back. I'm devastated. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently broke up, we have our issues as any couple does, he gave me hope, told me everything was going to be ok, and that we were going to talk, and not lose sight of each other. It took him the second night away, to sleep with someone. I could have ran to m... (386 words)

Boyfriend is domineering, selfish and hurtful. I try to break up but can't. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends... I am going through a very depressed state of my life. I need your help to get out of this. I have been in a relationship with this guy since 4 years. Previously, everything was going awesome. But now too much of fights are going between us. And, the reason i... (332 words)

I love 2 men and don't want to hurt either of them

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a very weird position. I love two men! I was dating a man in the army who was just about to deploy, he said he really likes me etc etc Then he went away and we decided to talk about taking our relationship further when he comes back. He is also still married and has one ... (151 words)

Should I feel guilty that I've stopped being a customer at a shop because of expenses?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I feel guilty about this? For several years now I have got on very well with a local shop where I buy my lunch. They treat me like a daughter. But this year I need to conserve my money as I know I have some big expenses later this year. So for this first two weeks ... (367 words)

Does a curved penis cause trouble during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - ok guys. question about curved penis. my penis is curved downwards and its curved pretty good. its not like an L shaped curve but rather just points downwards after 2 inch on the shaft on a 45 degree angle or maybe 60. im just wondering is this gonna cause me some trouble with ... (265 words)

My ex-husband's fiancée is trying to come between him and our kids!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - HI my fellow Aunts. Need your help with something if you don't mind. Long story short my ex husbands fiancee` is being a bitch. I have 3 kids two of which are my ex husbands, we get on really well (since he came back here) he lived abroad for about 6 years, he never kept in... (402 words)

He lied to me, I told him to never talk to me again. Is it over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 25 and was dating this guy since 2.5 years, we already had had a break up after a year of our relationship and we were not in contact for 5 months but again he came back to me and apologized and wanted to be with me as much as i had never moved on ....we were back ... (347 words)

After all these years, why do I still think about my past love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I volounteer at the local youth center, and with the help of my mentors have building up a good network systems. About 4 years ago I met this particular youth worker, at the time I really didn't see how amazing he was till after I got to know him. We work together on a fe... (430 words)

How long does a man last in bed after years of no intercourse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is directed to men who havent had sex in 2 years+, if there are women who had boyfriends in the same situation. feel free to reply. How long does a guy last in bed if he hadn't had sex in 2 years + and it will be his first time since? Just wondering. ... (61 words)

What are we? Friends, BF/GF, frenemies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

15 January 2013 (?) age 26-29 - This guy is confusing me soo much. I care about him but I don't want him to see me as one of the guys. Well I've known him for three years now, and we've always been kind of friends but with hints of something more. He gets jealous when I bring up other guys, on occasion... (632 words)

I'm confused by his actions. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am a 30 year old woman who has been talking to a 43 year old guy for around 3 months. Initially, he pursued me but after a couple of weeks things got heated and we were intimate twice. Since then, He has texted me less, sometimes not hearing from him for days at ... (226 words)

Should I be with someone who thinks of me as a slut?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So this guy and I were talking for about 4 months, then at a party we had one on one time. He brought me home and walked me into my room. I had drank a bit we than ended up having sex, he asked me to be his GF. I avoided the question, 2 months have passed by and he's still ... (147 words)

Crush central. How do I get to know him better? And he's joining the army soon. And I'm moving far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in my last year of high school and i realize ive got it sooo bad for this guy in my grade. We don't have any classes together but when he talks to people I know everything I need to know. He's not like really good-looking, he's not popular, but WOW sometimes i thin... (293 words)

How does a man know what "type" of girls is he interested in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear readers I'm am 19 years of age And I was just wondering how a man knows when he discovers the "type" of girls he is interested in. A lot of friends say that I like blondes and sure I have dated a few blonde girls but the only proper relationship I had was with a brune... (92 words)

I need some help with the jealousy I experiencing over two friends. I need your help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here is my story. I have these 2 friends they are girls and I am a girl as well. I met my first friend at work about 2 years ago (Friend A) and Friend B came in a year later. By this time Friend A and I got close, hung out, had fun and became like sisters! We start... (253 words)

I really like him and want to get more intimate with him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age - Hi, I have been dating this great guy for about 3 months, Hes nice to me, Opens the door for me, always pays for diner.I met his mom an dad. Hes on the shy side, I have to grab his hand always first than he holds it.I want to get closer to him, but i don't know how to approach ... (141 words)

Don't want to be a roadblock to her happiness. How do I stop thinking about my ex and my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

15 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I was dating this guy for about a year and seven months, we broke up a few days ago. In July I moved to a new state and started at a new school in August. This girl and I became really close with each other and now we're best friends. My ex and my best friend becam... (448 words)