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*ollowtheblackrabbit
writes:I'm seeing a man I like sometimes, hate sometimes who annoys me most of the time. He can be sweet but still. Now I'm shocked that I've spent seven months with him! He's the opposite of what I appreciate in a man: ungentlemanly, often conceited and assuming. I feel sometimes like I'm only sticking around cause I like his children and they like me. We have had good moments but he is just so frustrating to me although I honestly dont think he does it on purpose. My friend thinks its because both my exeswere white men and I'm not used to how He says he loves me and only once have I felt that I might mean it when saying it back. Am I stupid? Or is this a case of denial? Twice I tried to break it off and no gi. And no I dont really enjoy intimacy with hin.
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 You should just leave. Don't stay just for the children. Stay because you are happy and he treats you right.
Now, you're not happy and you say you don't like being intimate with him. So what more is there to say?
Walk away and cut all contact (COMPLETELY!). Find someone who you want to be with and who wants to be with you and make you happy.
Life's too short.
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reader, GabbyM  +, writes (14 January 2013):
highly agree with the others on here. don't waste yor time get out of the relationship u are worth it. first off when someone has to question a relationship or dig for truth. more then likely this fellow is not for u.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit +, writes (14 January 2013):
followtheblackrabbit is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey Im using my friends account so I'm white/Irish not from the Cayman Islands. Thanks for replying to my question. i feel like im going crazy. but i thought about what u both said and some things made sense. Especially about not wanting to admit i like him because of his faults. thanks again ladies.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 There are many women - and I'm not saying this is you - that stay with men they know aren't good for them, just because they hate being alone. They figure it's at least SOMEone with them. That could be the problem? I'd say hang out with some girl friends and just try to forget this guy if you want to.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 As women we are always taught that nice guys who open doors for you, have good manners are the ones we go for. Secretly we like wild men with just a touch of arrogance. I feel that he loves you more than you love him. The stability is hard to let go of. Your kind of love is attachment. You also want to see if there's a chance that one day you will get used to him and his annoying traits no longer bother you. I really wish that race has nothing to do with this. I thought most people in Cayman Islands are kind of mixed. I think you do like him in some way but don't want to admit it.
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