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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My bf has big money issues and I wonder if I should just leave him in this mess he created

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. My bf is currently having big money issues and he's much to be blamed. He had taken an order for which he did not have sufficient capital to do the work. So he took a loan from the bank and borrowed money from family and friends. He started the work although ... (223 words)

Out of the blue he says he loves me but can't be with me. I don't know what happened!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy on a dating site.we are talking by mails and on the phone before to meet 5 mnths ago.was a romantic trip.after that we met few more times.he wanted me to be a part of his life and share everythings with me.met me with his friends and parents.then just 3 weeks ago ... (131 words)

BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, but why don’t I want to face ... (478 words)

Should I trust my BF even after he lied to me about contacting another girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about three months. We just became officially boyfriend and girlfriend about three weeks ago. Last week I was at his house when he ran to drop something off I got on his computer and did some snooping. Well there is this girl I have always been ... (328 words)

I have a crush on a boy, but don't know if he wants a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've started liking someone since getting over someone else who I think I have overlooked. He's much much nicer than the person I used to like, and I'm certain he's not a "rebound" because he's all I've been able to think about for the last few months. He's one of my best ... (293 words)

He's looking for a girlfriend but he won't ask me out?????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am in quite a situation that's driving me nuts! I am a freshman in college and I've liked this guy since August when I started. He is a senior and we work together at the college as well. I found out today that he is looking for a girlfriend from another one of our ... (424 words)

He's in and out of my life..he only appears when he wants to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends! so here's a long story and i beg your patience and advice. I'm a lil bit puzzled by one guys behaviour. To clarify everything i should tell our "love"story. We've met each other by accident, coz two young Germans (about 25-26) were alone in the ... (1409 words)

Why does my BF keep going on dating sites if he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend swears down that he loves me. For the past year or so we keep on arguing because he wants to keep talking to girls on dating sites. I dont think he is going there with the aim of meeting any of them. My question is this. He is very loving to me. Why does he keep ... (92 words)

I want my partner to get a job and become a little independent. He is unemployed. Am I handling things the right way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a live in partner for 8 years n0w. Recently,i had my tattoo finished and he was acting like,"i want to get my first tattoo." i replied with,"if you want to have a tatt0o you sh0uld pay f0r it." he has n0 job by the way. I am kind of frank towards him. Some m0nths ago i ... (299 words)

I positively enjoy performing oral sex on my husband. Do other women experience the same thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I enjoy and look forward to performing oral sex on my husband. He is shocked by this fact. I tried to explain that it is no different than a sexual position that turns him on or a fantasy he has about me. I want my husband to ask for it. He feels bad because he feels I'm not ... (177 words)

I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004 we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery. I suspect and i think she's cheating on me. Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i hope this is posted.... (57 words)

At 17 how would guys view me if I chose to have an 'open relationship?' or is it just time breakup with my Bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. What is the male view of an open relationship? I'm 17 and although I enjoy the company of a 'boyfriend' I'm not ready to become monogamous just to one boy. An open relationship where we have the companionship but freedom sounds perfect to me but I don't want to be... (104 words)

First boyfriend. But it's not working. What's the best way to break up with a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I'm 16, I've had a boyfriend for 3 months but I just feel like its not right anymore. How do I break up with him? Do I need to lead up to it- be offhand/busy if he wants to see me, not reply to texts properly etc so he knows its coming... Or just do it ... (91 words)

Three years together, but last few months he's been depressed and pushing me away. How can I help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years we had a great relationship but the last four months hes been really withdrawn and not speaking to me . i have since found out he had debt of five grand that he's kept secret from me and his family . he's told me he's dep... (124 words)

My boyfriend wants to know if he can go to a party where his ex will be. What do I say?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf met up with his ex behind my back 2 years ago. He lied about it but the truth eventually came out. Not only that he'd saved semi naked (recent) photos on his computer from her facebook. We had a massive argument and had a break but I eventually forgave him and we got back ... (134 words)

He ended things without a word and now I have to see him. How should I act?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anybody ever had to deal with a situation like this, i'm sure it's happened many times but I don't know how to react or what i should do or say when i see him... There's this guy who I was dating for nearly 6 months, a long time! He's not my boyfriend, so please don't thi... (356 words)

I really want this girl back but I want things to be right. Do I wait and be her friend for now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts! I have a great story to tell, and I do need lots of answers. I hope you are prepared, because I am going to really make your minds work! I met a special girl on a very special day. Guess what! She wanted nothing to do with me! Go figure. I finally l... (506 words)

She's finally ready to have sex but I'm not

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal. She's finally ready to go to the next step with me. We've been together for half a year now and she says that she has fallen for me and trusts me completely with her heart. I would be lying if I said that I wasn't craving this moment but I did find more than ... (322 words)

A weekend away together, he grew cold on the way home and now has totally frozen me out. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for 2 months. Things were going great. Just two weeks ago, during my drive home after hanging out with him, he sent me a text that said, "I think we should take this relationship to a new level, will you be my facebook friend? (and I am on one ... (959 words)

I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that the relationship has been over for 2 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm 22 yrs old. i was in a relationship 2 years back which lasted for 9 months and was my first ever and ended because the guy started to like someone else and broke up to date the other girl. its been 2 years and i havent moved on. the guy broke up with that girl and star... (148 words)

I confronted my husband about flirting with girls and now he has turned cold on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I improve my relationship with my husband?I found out that he was flirting with girls that he termed as just friends,I confronted him,but todate he has completely changed.He treats me coldly,doesnt show any affection,is never interested in in sex n still keeps in touch ... (60 words)

Why is she not picking up clues that I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i am really confused on my situation here..i am attracted to a girl..she always treats me as a friend only even though i make her laugh and i be with her to support her in her difficult times and she enjoys a lot when shes with me but even after that shes doesnt seems attracted ... (156 words)

How can I convince my Boyfriend that his smoking weed is a deal breaker for me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. When we first met i didnt know he smoked weed, but as time went on he seemed to smoke more and more to the point where i said it was bothering me. His personality has changed and the smell drives me mad. lately we have been arg... (307 words)

Should I forgive my guy friend for sleeping with my then girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am not completely sure how forgiveness works. I don't know when to let go of something, or to hold onto it -- I either do or I don't, and that is that. I have a question about forgiving and forgetting. To ask it, I feel I should give the story to you. It will sound stup... (679 words)

Is my boyfriend controlling or normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for just 4 months now but we have been seeing eachother since last July. He is honestly, the most caring, loving, gentle man I have ever come across ( and I am not saying that because he is my boyfriend ). I have just turned 18 and he is turning 21 ... (742 words)

Should I stay with my best friend/boyfriend? Or end things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 21 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When I first met him, we had a wonderful relationship...about 8 months into it, he started drifting away. He wanted to spend more time with his friends and not include me in their ... (663 words)

My father won't get rid of a POS oven! Should I have my friend sabotage it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this question isn't the sort of question that this website's created for, but I want some opinions on what I should do about this. For about 16 years my family has used the same oven. At one point it was a pretty good oven, but overtime as technology has evolved,... (316 words)

Online date turned out to be much bigger than I expected. How do I let her know I am not physically attracted without hurting her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi so recently i set up a profile on a dating site. I was contacted by a girl that looked really cute. We talked for a bit exchanged phone numbers, and texted a bunch, she was really cool and we had some common interests. We met up recently and i was really shocked since she is ... (116 words)

I met one of my students at a bar and now I can't talk to her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

25 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm 24 years old and just got a job as a history teacher. Over the summer, I met this amazing girl. I met her in a bar so I just assumed that she was over 21 so I never bothered to ask for her age. She's beautiful, smart, funny. The most gorgeous brown curls. And her laugh ... (139 words)

Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her head. He uses her only cal... (82 words)

I'm starting to think his sex addiction is a problem

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been telling me that he is thinking about having sex with other girls. He thinks about how exciting it would be and what kind of things he can do to other girls. We are both aware that he is addicted to sex, and he falls into the addiction cycle every now and ... (111 words)