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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He doesn't show me any care or love, he just keeps ignoring me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid...my boyfriend has been ignoring me for 3weeks now and anytime i asked him what the problem is he tells me he is ok,and when i asked if he is tired of me,he still says no have have to try to make things work but he doesnt show me anycare and love but keeps ... (128 words)

If we are to be together he expects me to make sacrifices for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm in the middle of a dilemma. My ex-boyfriend and I have maintained contact on and off for three years. He now lives just a state over from me, which brings us a little closer and has asked (since relocating) if I'd come to visit him. Being that it's been o... (279 words)

He said it was hard to be friends with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I really need someone's advice/words of wisdom. I'll try to keep it short and simple so that it's not a hell to read. I fell in love with a boy. He was so amazing in every way. I told him I wanted to be with him. At first he said he didn't want to get into a relation... (404 words)

Seventeen year gap in communication with an ex... is it too late to try again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All, I am back again, so I am 41 years old, apparently for my age I am in good shape and do't look my age. But my issue is this, I am longing to settle down and be married but living in London and seeing Societies Women generally either looking to settle down wi... (664 words)

Should I leave my boyfriend for his best mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen for my boyfriends best mate and I don't know how to handle it. They play on the same football team locally and as I wash all the kits, we got to know each other without my boyfriend there. We have a lot in common and just clicked. I cant explain it really. It start... (314 words)

Does my GF's behaviour mean she's not interested? Should I talk to her or break it off? I'm falling for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Thank you for you time and help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, but my problem is, I don't think she loves me back as I do. I would do anything for her, anything, but she never has the time or is busy. As long as we have been going out, we barely hang out ... (332 words)

Me and my FWB were both in committed relationships but I think I love him. Why has he distanced himself from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I was involved in FWB relationship for a year, it's someone that used to always be there for me, we enjoyed each others company and only started sleeping together after 9 months. I feel so much for him but we are both in relationships where I'm engaged and he's with som... (129 words)

Do I stay with my existing boyfriend or do I go for the Hot hot hot Cutie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a boyfriend for almost 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship, I didn't really think of him in a way other than a friend (we've known each other for about 10 years). But my love developed over time, I started to appreciate his kindness and love for me. I'v... (273 words)

She totally destroyed my confidence. How to get her out of my head? How to move on from the hurt?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age - Hi my girlfriend I had for two years was paranoid about me thinking I was looking at other girls eying them up and kept on saying that someone else comes along I would be off ,I kept on reassuring her and telling her I loved her ,she turned her family against me ,and the ... (611 words)

He's busy and antisocial. So why did he ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I got to know of this guy through my friend. We only met once that time together with my friend. Since then he hasn't messaged nor called, until one day he asked if I am interested in a movie. So we went out for movie and dinner. he told me he is quite an anti social guy,... (240 words)

LDR and I miss him. Has anyone gone through something like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, This past September my best friend moved away to go to grad school. I had a lot of trouble coping with the fact that he was gone and cried a whole lot and was depressed for a couple weeks. Eventually him not being around became routine and I got used to it but s... (226 words)

My boyfriend told me he doesn't know if I'm the one. Should I end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well I am having great relationship problems. I feel very lost and don't know what to do. My boyfriend told me he loved me and things were great between us. Then i noticed he was acting off with me and on questioning him he said he didn't know if I was the one and he d... (316 words)

How can I break this cycle of him distancing himself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I've been with by boyfriend for a year now and just spend a lovely week together over Christmas with his family after spending 5 weeks apart. Were semi long distance but text daily. Everything was great and we have 2 holidays lined up in Jan and Feb. Out of the ... (235 words)

Is my boyfriend addicted to sex? Will he cheat on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It will be our two year anniversary on march 25th. On our year anniversary i lost my virginity to him. Other than me, he's only had sex with one other girl (or claims so).. and i believe him since he was basically horrible and quick in bed, haha. So it's not like he was always ... (300 words)

My girlfriend's past disturbs me so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfrend's past distburbs me so much that i cant control myself in what so eva am doing when it comes up in my brain.she had three abortion for her first guy and yet he later left her saying he wasn't responsible for them,i love her so much that i pittied her.and wonder why ... (102 words)

Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas and she has been on dating ... (153 words)

Why is she so curious about who is calling my phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - what does it mean when my GF is always wanting to know who is call my phone before i can even pull out of my pocket to see for myself? ... (32 words)

Is he scared of what he felt? Or did he change his mind about being with me? And why would he say what he said on Facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologize in advance, this is going to be quite a read, but to fully understand the situation I feel as though I need to include all of this. Ok, it starts out about 2 years ago. I was working at a restaurant waiting tables and we got a new employee, I immediately was draw... (908 words)

What do you think about the age gap and races, or have any of you been through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I met someone one month ago. He's 31 and from California, and I'm 21 from Malaysia. The thing is, we are still in a friend zone of course, but he believe in me so much. Well I trust him too without any doubt. He said he like me so much and me as well. He is living in ... (226 words)

I can't forget my crush!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I was wondering if you can help me because I really like this guy from my school but the thing is I don't actually know even know his name or had a course with him(both of us go to the same university) I know it sounds crazy but I started to like him because he looked so ... (135 words)

I'm afraid my beautiful sister would steal my boyfriend away from me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm embarrassed to speak of this, but my older sister is beautiful. We look a lot alike, but she definitely looks more mature and gets more male attention. I worry that when I bring a boyfriend to a family gathering, he will see her and find her more attractive than myself, and ... (84 words)

Why does this guy not respond to my text when I ask a question?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there and thank you for the response back. There is this guy that I like that has this annoying habit of not responding to text messages when I ask a question. For example, tonight he sent me a text message where he was complaining about being bugged by angry cust... (199 words)

Is 19 too young to go on a dating site?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think 19 is too young to go on dating site, i have no luck with guys, its make me wondering if 19 is too young, my friends have profile and keeps telling me to join? i don't want to mention this to her since its slightly embarrassing ... (49 words)

Guys: Do you judge girls by their shape and appearance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so horny lately... I'm 19 and never had boyfriend before which i believe its my weight, i've always been over weight as child and i started doing gym recently and lost 6kg but need to loose 50 more !! but i can't wait untill i get the perfect body!! honestly guys? do you ... (68 words)

Is it common to stop feeling that old love and passion in long distance relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4127 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it common in long distance relationships, where you meet your lover once in 2 or 3 months ..to stop feeling that old love and passion? or is it because i don't love him anymore :( i cannot think of anyone else as my future spouse, but i just don't feel interested in this ... (439 words)

Who was lying? My girlfriend or her friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My Gf Friends, came up to me and they asked me was i still with her and i'm like Yeah why. Apparently my Gf hooked up with two other girls, and she went to go see them. I started crying, they comfort me i soon walk away. My gf come up to me, she automatically knew what was ... (129 words)

Please help a young marriage before it becomes another divorce statistic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 19 and my husband and I just got married when we got married I was 8 months pregnant with our twins. Our twins are now 6 weeks old and he does even seem like he loves me. I don't want us to get a divorce my parents were and so is his. I want to change it before it gets ... (156 words)

I feel more lonely than ever now that he's moved on. How do I now move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been extremely lonely for a very long time. I've tried dating sites with no success. Yes, i am happy with my life the way it is. The person that took that loneliness away has decided that what we had was not morally correct because we are cousins. How do i move ... (71 words)

I've been feeling jealous about this girl doing things without me. What do I do about these feelings? Because I think I'm gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (M) age 22-25 - Ok I'm a gay teen. Lately Ive been getting overly jealous of my (straight,girl) bestfriend. Some things that get me jealous are her talking to other people for advice, and inviting people places, but never asking me to tag along. What do I do about these feelings?... (51 words)

He says he has a soft spot for me. But what does that mean for us now? What is a soft spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - So my guy best friend admitted how he truely felt about me on new years eve. He said that he loved me. Once that was out there it all came pouring out, like everything he loved about me. I love him to pieces but as a friend. Since then none have us mentioned it ane this lef... (176 words)

Why is he hot and cold? He just disappears with no word/ Should I stay or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for five months now and I have met his family and his son and he has met my kids and we have spent holidays with him and his family Yet every time it's going good he just ups and disappears he stops talking to me for a week or two. Then later he ... (164 words)

He is special to me. What can I do to make my husband feel like he is really special to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - im a stay at home mom with three children aged 2 to 7 years. Last night my husband said i don't do half of what he does. i feel bad. i take care of house hold and kids no break. i keep a clean house. He takes care of us to the max. always buying me things and the kids. T... (121 words)

Should I back off? What could have changed that she stopped contacting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have been talking to a girl for about 2 months now. We are classmates in grad school and very busy. When we talk about what we want from our relationship, she says she doesn't know if she can handle a boyfriend right now because of school, and because she just got... (193 words)

I'd never been kissed and I'm shy. Why has this random kiss, my first ever kiss, so unsettled me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, i was hanging out with my cousins and her friends over the holiday. Since i was in town that year. And beside me there were 3 girls and 2 guys. Well we were drinking somewhat and just having a good time. Well we got kind of bored so we decided to start play a lot of ga... (382 words)

Is my Gf cheating on me with my mate? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

5 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so it all started when my mate first stayed round my Girlfriend's house and she said he could stay in the bed with us. I didn't think anything at this time I just didn't like it and in the end I just made him sleep on the floor. Then he stayed again the next night and I ... (345 words)

Will my boyfriend come through for me or will he bail out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (F)

age - I'm married he's not. He says I shouldn't divorce just to be with him. He talks about our future together. Its not that much sex but it is good sex. We've been seeing each other for 2 plus yrs. He tells me to have patienill all work out. I know I don't want to be married to my ... (73 words)