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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Three dates and we're already fighting? Is it time to stop things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy by chance at my local coffee shop. There was instant chemistry. He asked me out and has been more romantic than Iv ever experienced. He said the sweetest things you could ever imagine and although I was hesitant to trust him he promised he'd be everything I needed. ... (342 words)

I am my husband's punching bag! I'm very lonely in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age - My husband is 12 years older then I. We dated for 1.5. Then married. I feel so lonely in this marriage. He complains about everything. Talks about everyone behind their backs. But will not confort them. So i become the punching bag. He allows people to walk over him. But I am ... (99 words)

Do guys back off if their friends show interest in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So to make a long story short, a guy from my school was very interested in me, but I have feelings for one of his friends. One day I was talking to the friend, and he basically told me that he finds me attractive but that he felt we couldn't act on anything because he knows... (246 words)

My sister has an obsession in staying in touch with my ex boyfriends. Its very unsettling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This may sound strange, but my sister seems to have some kind of obsession with my ex boyfriends. When I break up with someone I rarely stay friends with them, not because I dislike them, but because I like to make a clean break and move on and I find that staying friends with ... (285 words)

I broke up with abusive boyfriend but he keeps bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my ex four months ago.He was quite abusive and very manipulative. He used to blame me for everything which was happening in his life. he lost his job also. on that time i was very emotional but still i broke up because it was the right thing to do, now... (280 words)

Boyfriend asked for undetermined break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, i don't know how to deal with my boyfriend. There is something that happened to my life and i told him exactly what happened the whole truth, but however i wasnt comfortable telling my family yet, i grew up in a family where we weren't very fortunate. And i ha... (677 words)

Is he intimidated by me or just playing games with me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was an assistant to the managers at my job during the holiday season which lasted three months and in this time I got to know everyone in the store and all the new holiday hires. One person in particular worked in all different areas of the store but it seemed that he was ... (280 words)

Should I try to discourage him from wanting to be married to me? Or end the marriage? Could I get transitional housing to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Married for over 11-12 years with passive aggressive husband who constantly diminishes my every move. I have 2 sons who are 8 and 10, and a daughter who just turned 1. Scared that no one will take care of me when I get old. I'm always good at my own things, but he dete... (437 words)

I don't trust him to go to his friends birthday party

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice. My bf and I have trust issues, and his best friend is havi.g a bday bash. Loud music, booze, friends and girls. We planned to go together but the baby sitter got sick and I cant find anyone on such short notice... I do not really know what to do or how ... (370 words)

He lies about still contacting his ex-wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently looked at my boyfriend of 3 months text messages and he texted his ex-wife asking to take her out on a date. However she declined his offer. Now I have asked him if he has any feeling for her and is telling me no he doesn't! I know he is lying but I dont know how to ... (97 words)

I want to talk to this boy but I don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4111 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in high school now and when i was in grade 9 i met this boy in the bus. but im in grade 12. I would see him sometimes, depending on what time i got to his bus stop. we would look at each other and every time i got off at my bus stop i felt that he was looking at me. this ... (151 words)

Hasn't told me loves me. Should I be concerned?

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19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, and he hasn't told me he loves me. We see each other when we can, and do an equal part in coming up with days to see each other, and things to do together. He's very affectionate when we're together. We get along great, and we ... (182 words)

Anyone have a boyfriend who was so satisfied he gave up porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any women here whose boyfriend's stopped watching porn because they felt they didn't need it anymore because they were satisfied fully? My ex claimed he would of stopped anyway if I hadn't of told him to stop.... (39 words)

Help, I've pushed my husband away and don't know what to do!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my husband on a christian dating site. We hit it off right away and a year later got married. It was our second marriage for both of us. I Think he was more realistic when he married me, knowing that there may be some unresolved issues that would surface at some point. I ... (348 words)

Whats his intention? does he like me or he just think I am a pushover ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this obnoxious guy in my class. at first i thought he is cute but he was being rude to me. like i kind of felt that he is ignoring me. he always makes fun of my accent. i thought he is pathetic though, anyways... i thought he did this because he liked me but ... (102 words)

How long do I need before I can stop taking the mini pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been on the mini pill less than a month but its causing very irregular bleeding so I want to come off it and just stick with condoms. Anyway my question is; how long do I need to keep taking it before I come off it, if the last time I had sex minus a condom was around ... (84 words)

I'm 18 and I want to move out & stop being grounded/have my possessions taken from me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 18 and I continually get my electronics taken away from me that I paid for and am continually grounded. I have a bedtime of 10 on school nights, and it varies on weekends. I have some money put away for savings and Im in school right now (Its all paid off). I want to ... (253 words)

Does anyone have any advise about dermatillomania?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have picked at my skin for as long as I can remember. I have done some research and it turns out that there is a name for what I have: . I've looked up ways to try to stop it and they are all very wise and helpful but the problem with me is that most of the time I don't even ... (116 words)

My boyfriend wants to go to Amsterdam for a stag party for gorgeous hookers and strippers

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is probably a divided opinion sort of question haha, but please try to respect my opinion. :) My boyfriend of 4 months has on occasion openly "gawked" over other girls, girls 1000000x more attractive than me. On top of this, not once (literally) has he called me att... (193 words)

I'm playing with fire with an 18 year old co-worker that also works with my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (?) age 41-50 - I'm 36 and have been married for 15 years,we have 3 children and have been happy for most of our married life. I've recently been getting feelings for an 18 year old girl at work and we have been flirting by text and she claims she fancies me aswell. She is in a steady ... (179 words)

My boyfriend is extremely distrustful and irrational. How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is driving me crazy Ok, we've been dating for 2 years. There was an incident with another guy at the beginning of our relationship, he says I cheated, I say I didn't (I didn't even sleep with the guy, we just talked and when I found out he had feelings for me ... (319 words)

Confused - why didn't my ex recognise me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, this might sound a bit weird, but I wanted someone else’s perspective on it. I dated a guy for about nine months in 2009; it was a fairly serious relationship, but we split because we lived too far apart to make it work. It was a fairly amicable split and we had planned to ... (270 words)

How do I regain girlfriend's trust after watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and she found out that I' had been watching porno from time to time .i love her so much all I truly want to do is to gain her trust and make her happy (I am no longer watching porno I have looked for ways to keep my self busy ... (88 words)

He can't handle it now that I no longer have a crush on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I still remember when I first fell in love. Or fell in what I thought was love. It was unrequited and I was very young. I managed to stay in that infatuated state for a good four years. Many things happened during that time. For example, he found out how I felt, and decide... (700 words)

Sexless marriage driving me crazy !

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

19 January 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I love my wife very much but I am going insane. We have sex once in three months. I feel a physical disconnect even though I try to cuddle kiss and initiate love making. I believe that in life if you do not want something to happen, you will find all excuses for ... (381 words)

My 19 year old stepdaughter is having an affair with a man 30 years her senior. We can't make her see reason!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

19 January 2013 (M)

age - My 19 yr old step daughter is having an affair with a 49 yr old rep that delivers hair products to the salon where she works. Her dad knows but doesn't care and her mother and I are worried sick he is only after one thing. He takes her away for weekends in hotels, has bought ... (135 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm having lesbian thoughts and its not what I want to feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm having bi / lesbain thoughts I'm scared I have an amazing boyfriend I love him I'm scared I'm gonna lose him the thought scares me and makes me cry I love him I wanna clear my head it makes it hard for me to sleep becuz ill dream bout it sometimes ... (123 words)

Should I be jealous of his female friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Just so I'm clear, my boyfriend is 19 and I'm 16. So my boyfriend and I recently had problems in our relationship because he felt we were losing our love for each other and we are still trying to get back to the way it was but now I'm having a problem. He has a new friend t... (276 words)

Husband obsessed with teenage girls, trying to be ok now but I feel depressed I keep getting images in my head

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 next month, my husband is 30, we've been together 13 years, we have 2 children and he has constanly cheated on me!, all of them much younger, mostly teenagers!, I have gone through his phone and emails and facebook and found out there's more on the go then I first ... (382 words)

Valentine's day gift? I don't want to get him the generic stuff

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay.. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months, and I have NO idea what to get him for Valentines day. I really want it to be something great, and not just the generic card or candy from Walmart. I just need some good ideas please!! 3 thanks(: ... (51 words)

When my husband wants sex, I'm always available, but when I want it, I have to wait till he wants to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband 11 years. We both enjoy sex very much and now I'm pregnant with our 4th child. He wants sex all the time and usually when he wants it I give it, however, when I want it I have to wait til he feels like giving it. I feel like he see's it as a chore when ... (90 words)

My boyfriend isn't financially stable. After 3 years should I accept that I would be the breadwinner? Or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi dearcupid, I am not sure what to do in my relationship of 2 years. When I met my bf he presented himself as a financially comfortable insurance salesman and of course I didn't ask deeply personal questions. Then as time passed and we enjoyed being together I started to spend ... (214 words)

My boyfriend has let a female friend come between us because he won't stop texting her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy and I were doing nicely. he is 4 years older than me. we work at same office, travel by the same bus. i met him 6 months ago. Soon we were so close(went for shopping,movie, beach and restaurant together even made love).everything was going smoothly when suddenly i h... (447 words)

A friend wants to date me but I only like him as a friend. He's become quite annoying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 January 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I know a guy who just got back from boot camp for the marines. We didn't really talk much before he left. He had texted me a couple of times telling me Im beautiful, and that he had liked me but I never had feeling for him, he's just a friend.I would only reply so often because ... (280 words)