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We were caught naked by my husband! Now what?

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Question - (20 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year I,m in the process of separation from my husband. The guy i am seeing is still married he tells me he is leaving his wife next year when his youngest child will be 18. The big problem i have is that we were both caught by my husband naked in bed. My lover says he does not want to back off and i don,t wont him to back off.What is my best plan of action at this time? I have deep feelings for this man we talk to each other every day and since the incident has happened with my husband we are still both in contact with each other by phone and text.

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (21 June 2009):

Your friend agony auntCarry on the relationship as if your husband hadn't caught you naked. Why would you change because o this. The question not asked is the married man who 'will leave his wife next year' we have all heard that one a thousand times before. For your sake I hope you are right about him.

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A male reader, Goin crazy United States +, writes (20 June 2009):

If you are seperated then whats the big deal?? You dont know what your soon to be ex is doing in his bedroom .I dont know if you are in the same home still or not and if you are then ooops to you. I cant have sex with my wife due to medical problems .And that in itself is putting a big strain on my marriage. Just follow your heart . Not your hormones.

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