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writes:So my team and I just finished up our season a couple weeks ago and I've had mixed emotions sense then about some things (mainly about my coach). I really enjoyed being on his team this year and he made it so much fun for me, personally. Whether it was his jokes he'd tell during practices/games, or just the goofy stories he had, I'd say we all had a great time together. But now that I'm looking back on it all, I guess I'm realizing how much I miss going to practices/games and seeing him everyday, and he even said to us that we'll probably feel lost, now that it's over.Sense I really had no clue who he was prior to tryouts, I'd just heard some things about him; like how nice/funny he is, etc. So after tryouts were done and we started to have practices, I started to feel like I was becoming closer to him and vice versa for him as well because he'd joke around all the time during practices and stuff and he seemed to really like us as a team. I wouldn't consider that I have a 'crush' on him. I just admire him and really care about him and do see him as an older friend. I say that because he IS such a nice, caring guy and he'd always be there for us. For example, a couple times during games, if I was struggling with something, and I'd gotten upset, he'd make sure to come over to me and talk about...until he'd make me laugh it off, of course. I appreciated him doing that, because I felt better with myself and he always seemed to know how I felt about that particular situation. So it was nice to see he cared about us like that. I think I've established a good "bond" with him this year, and he told me he loved getting to know me and looks forward to having me on a team again. And I just keep thinking about him and what he said and the times we had together. So basically what I'm trying to ask here...Is this wrong of me to keep thinking of him? Because everyday it seems like I do. Thanks to anyone with advice on this. =] Reply to this Question
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reader, citic101  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 sounds very normal , you liked him alot and miss him , sounds like a great guy. We get some great teachers and some crap teachers this time you got a good one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): I don't think it's wrong at all. Some people just leave a great impression, you could say they "mark" your life and will remain an important part of it. It doesn't necessarily means it's romantic either. Gosh do I think about my best friend every single day and I'm positive I'm not a lesbian hahaha
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