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My brother is driving me crazy with the way he's behaving! How do I get him to stop?

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Question - (20 June 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2009)
A male Australia age 22-25, anonymous writes:

My roommate/brother (long story) likes to walk in on my girlfriend of 3 years and me when we make love. My girl doesn't like it so talked to my brother but he keeps doing it. Anyway he went too far a few days ago. My girlfriend came over to my place (it was her b-day) and we getting at it my room (with the door locked). Well my asshole brother somehow picked the lock and slash us water that green food colouring in it. To make matters worse my girlfriend was wearing a tight white T-shirt (she wasn't wearing a bra either) plus ruined my bed sheets that white also. Then he called my girlfriend a whore with tiny boobies. She got really upset, she was almost crying. I was mad at him that I almost punched but then I realize it wasn’t worth it. Very long story short I left with her to go to her place and I going to try to move in with her by the end of month if I can. But my brother driving me the wall with the all phone calls. He won’t me alone and I’m still too mad to talk to he. How I get can him to leave alone?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (20 June 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntIs your brother mentally ill? Does he have a drug or alcohol abuse problem? What you've described is irrational behavior and I would suggest that you tell him you will speak with him AFTER he has initiated some sort of medical/professional evaluation and treatment programme. You may be helping him face a problem by 'tough love'. Have that talk with him, but don't negotiate or allow him to have no consequences to this very bizarre behavior. If you act like a freak, then you are treated as one. If you don't want to be treated like a freak, get some help. That's the message you should get across.

Is there something you're not telling us about his mental condition?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009):

Talk to him seriously about this, maybe he has attention defecate disorder, either that or he is a serious prick.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009):

You didn't hear him picking the lock?

He needs to learn respect. If that happened to me, i know my man would punch him. Just for him looking at me, and then even commenting on me, plus the major incasion of privacey and humiliation, he woulda beat the shi* outta him.

Stop talking to him until he groes up. You don't have to associate wiht him just becuase he's your brother.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009):

It seems that your brother might be jealous at the fact your with someone or he might be obsessed with you. The fact he never leaves you alone and wont let you be with someone without interrupting means he probably thinks of you two as more then family, hopefully not. Either way you two need to talk about this problem and its probably for the best if you moved out

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009):

Woah your brother has some issues. Is this the whole story? It seems strange that he would do all that for no reason. Whatever happens, I think you were right to move out. Ignore his calls etc until he can speak to you like an adult... just a question, do your girlfriend and your brother have a history?

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