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writes:I am a 49 year old male married 8 years with one son 6 years old my wife is 36 years old my problem is before we got married we were having sex 4 and 5 time a week after our son was born the sex drop to 2 and 3 time a week, for the past 2 years it's 2 time or if I am lucky 3 time a month. when ever I speak about the change in our sex life her reply is she is older, she have a son, she is not an animal or do i want to kill her.She tells me I need help because I am a sex maniac. All I am asking for is sex 2 time a week am I unreasonable some time I think about cheating but that will not help becaused I love my wife.We take care of our son equaly and I help around the house and we both work I work two jobs.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 June 2009):
 I think you two need to see a sex therapist. While I don't think wanting sex twice a week makes you an animal, I don't see the problem with masturbating either. You don't need to have an affair. It seems that you two have different ideas about what a healthy sex life means, and I think sitting down with an experienced therapist will help you both work it out.
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reader, manrat +, writes (21 June 2009):
manrat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am a man i work very hard to give her everything she ask for i also share all the home work and take care of my son after working 16 hours 5 days a week so if your advised is to masterbate. when my wife works 6 hours a day and is in need of nothing then i need to have an outside affair. I will not masterbate.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 As a woman gets older and has children her sex drive can decrease so be a man and deal with it! Try masturbating if it bothers you that much! Don't be so selfish as to hassle your wife into having sex! X
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